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MarineCombatEngineer

(18,176 posts)
Sat May 16, 2026, 10:18 PM Saturday

Ok, so last post in GD for awhile,

we've decided on a wedding day, it'll be July 4th at 2:pm in Phoenix, AZ., everyone in my extended family will be attending.
Thank you DU for your support in this changing of my life.

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Ok, so last post in GD for awhile, (Original Post) MarineCombatEngineer Saturday OP
Congratulations MCE MustLoveBeagles Saturday #1
Good for you both MCE! Hey Joe Saturday #2
congrats mr715 Saturday #3
Best wishes to you both! biophile Saturday #4
Congrats to an old Vietnam vet! kentuck Saturday #5
How nice Figarosmom Saturday #6
Congratulations!! dalton99a Saturday #7
Best wishes! Hope22 Saturday #8
Congrats and best of luck! Semper Fi! nt Wounded Bear Saturday #9
Congrats!! Best of luck to both of you!! paleotn Saturday #10
Congrats Lifeafter70 Saturday #11
Bride insists I wear my Dress Blues and have taken them to a Tailor for "adjustments". MarineCombatEngineer Saturday #13
Do it! Doesn't she deserve to see you at your most handsome? calimary Saturday #17
Nice Lifeafter70 Saturday #24
Do It! USMC Dress Blues are the finest. yellowdogintexas Yesterday #30
Face facts, old man....we ALLLLLLL need "adjustments" to our attire as time goes on. AZ8theist Yesterday #32
Will you have a haircut that meets... 3catwoman3 Yesterday #41
Haircut and shave. MarineCombatEngineer 20 hrs ago #65
I figured as much. 3catwoman3 19 hrs ago #69
Thank you and your husband for your service. MarineCombatEngineer 17 hrs ago #78
A shave and a haircut. Two bits. erronis 19 hrs ago #71
Throwing this out there obamanut2012 19 hrs ago #72
Wonderful news! Let it be a glorious, memorable and happy day for both of you FakeNoose Saturday #12
Congratulations, MarineCombatEngineer.. Permanut Saturday #14
Congratulations sinkingfeeling Saturday #15
Congratulations Arthur_Frain Saturday #16
I hope you live happily ever, dear MCE UpInArms Saturday #18
Congratulations! LoisB Saturday #19
Wonderful news, MCE. sheshe2 Saturday #20
Lovely to hear your good news, MCE! summer_in_TX Saturday #21
Best wishes to both of you! Nt spooky3 Saturday #22
Congratulations and Godspeed orangecrush Saturday #23
So fabulous! hamsterjill Saturday #25
Amazing how good things just walk into your life BeneteauBum Saturday #26
Uh-Ra - and Congrats haele Saturday #27
Well done you! canetoad Saturday #28
Hey everyone at DU - WE ARE ALL INVITED!!! Marie Marie Saturday #29
Great to hear IbogaProject Yesterday #31
Congratulations MCE! mountain grammy Yesterday #33
I'm so very happy for you! fierywoman Yesterday #34
So Happy for you and your Bride Cha Yesterday #35
Congratulations to you both!! :) TBF Yesterday #36
Congratulations!!! FullySupportDems Yesterday #37
Mazel Tov! irisblue Yesterday #38
Congratulations, MarineCombatEngineer! HeartsCanHope Yesterday #39
K&R jfz9580m Yesterday #40
Congrats MCE!!!! sdfernando 23 hrs ago #42
Awwwwwwww. CONGRATULATIONS !!! BumRushDaShow 23 hrs ago #43
Congratulations MCE gademocrat7 23 hrs ago #44
Congratulations! Wishing you a lifetime of love 10 Turtle Day 22 hrs ago #45
Congratulations!!! PCIntern 22 hrs ago #46
Best wishes to you! murielm99 22 hrs ago #47
Congrats! Kaleva 22 hrs ago #48
Yay you!!! Delphinus 21 hrs ago #49
Here's wishing you lots of happiness malaise 21 hrs ago #50
So happy for your MCE! You deserve the best in life! Irish_Dem 21 hrs ago #51
On to the next chapter of your life democrank 21 hrs ago #52
Congrats! OldBaldy1701E 21 hrs ago #53
Best wishes ! surfered 21 hrs ago #54
Awright! Congrats. Norrrm 21 hrs ago #55
Wishing you and your lady all the very, very best. And thank you both niyad 21 hrs ago #56
There is no greater privilege than to share in love. NNadir 20 hrs ago #57
Congratulations. debm55 20 hrs ago #58
Congratulations, MCE! WinstonSmith4740 20 hrs ago #59
Congratulations! FemDemERA 20 hrs ago #60
K&R spanone 20 hrs ago #61
Congratulations, and Many Fireworks! ColoringFool 20 hrs ago #62
Hope your marriage lasts longer than your Marine career did. KS Toronado 20 hrs ago #63
Wishing you many years of love and happiness radical noodle 20 hrs ago #64
Congratulations 🎉 oasis 20 hrs ago #66
Congratulations!!! CaptainTruth 20 hrs ago #67
Mazel tov! malthaussen 19 hrs ago #68
Congratulations and best wishes! yardwork 19 hrs ago #70
Congratz MCE! I wish you a wonderful wedding and marriage, a life of deep connection and unwavering support. Celerity 18 hrs ago #73
Congratulations! Nixie 18 hrs ago #74
Kudos! peppertree 18 hrs ago #75
Congratulations 🎈 underpants 18 hrs ago #76
Congratulations ❣️ live love laugh 18 hrs ago #77
I'm over the moon happy for you! 💜 1WorldHope 16 hrs ago #79
Awwwwwww, sounds absolutely LOVE-ly!!! calimary 16 hrs ago #80
Congratulations! I took this lesson from Ben Franklin and so far it has worked: Keep your eyes wide open before Exp 15 hrs ago #81
all the best to you! markie 15 hrs ago #82

calimary

(90,755 posts)
17. Do it! Doesn't she deserve to see you at your most handsome?
Sat May 16, 2026, 10:59 PM
Saturday

Your Dress Blues will contribute to that, quite mightily!

yellowdogintexas

(23,757 posts)
30. Do It! USMC Dress Blues are the finest.
Sun May 17, 2026, 12:04 AM
Yesterday

The photos will be amazing

Congratulations! I am going out to Phoenix, but not until August. Otherwise I would crash the ceremony


AZ8theist

(7,626 posts)
32. Face facts, old man....we ALLLLLLL need "adjustments" to our attire as time goes on.
Sun May 17, 2026, 12:14 AM
Yesterday

Unfortunately, my adjustments only seem to go in one direction, and it ain't inward!!

Seriously, CONGRATULATIONS on your big event!! Best wishes from a fellow Zoni!

3catwoman3

(29,782 posts)
41. Will you have a haircut that meets...
Sun May 17, 2026, 05:14 AM
Yesterday

…reg 1020.34H standards? (I had to look up what the Marine equivalent to Air Force reg 3510 is, so blame Google and AI if don’t have the proper numbers.)

MarineCombatEngineer

(18,176 posts)
65. Haircut and shave.
Sun May 17, 2026, 09:04 AM
20 hrs ago

If I'm going to wear my Dress Blues, then I'll definitely need to represent the uniform and service properly.

3catwoman3

(29,782 posts)
69. I figured as much.
Sun May 17, 2026, 09:53 AM
19 hrs ago

In a television series I have followed, the main male character is a retired Marine who is the proprietor of a bar, and has long shaggy hair. In the final episode of the latest season, he finally marries the female lead while wearing his dress blues but with long hair hanging over his ears and his collar. It looked terrible and really ruined the story line. I figured none of the writers had ever been in the military or they would have known better.

Regardless of branch, specialty, or length of service, I think there is a bond amongst those of us who have served. There are things we understand that those who have not do not.

My husband and I met while in the Air Force - I was a peds nurse practitioner in the nurse corps, he was a pilot. We were next-door neighbors in the BOQ at Yokota AB in Japan. My husband did the full 20. I was active duty for 4, and a reservist for 8. We got married in 1982.

I always enjoy reading your posts, especially the recent ones about your granddaughter and about your new romance, and I’m sure you’ll look like a million bucks on July 4th.

How long were you in?

erronis

(24,509 posts)
71. A shave and a haircut. Two bits.
Sun May 17, 2026, 10:11 AM
19 hrs ago
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shave_and_a_Haircut

Used to get my haircut in the Pentagon. Sit down, shut up, clipped and done. $3 and about 5 minutes. Perfection.

Permanut

(8,564 posts)
14. Congratulations, MarineCombatEngineer..
Sat May 16, 2026, 10:55 PM
Saturday

From another old vet. Married 39 years and I highly recommend it.

haele

(15,592 posts)
27. Uh-Ra - and Congrats
Sat May 16, 2026, 11:49 PM
Saturday

Y'know, some venues will stream it online...may this be a long and happy pairing.

canetoad

(21,010 posts)
28. Well done you!
Sat May 16, 2026, 11:52 PM
Saturday

All the best for the future to both yourself and your future wife. Thrilled for both of you.

Marie Marie

(11,509 posts)
29. Hey everyone at DU - WE ARE ALL INVITED!!!
Sat May 16, 2026, 11:56 PM
Saturday

After all, I like to think we are all extended family to one another.

Congrats, have a beautiful wedding day and a happy ever after.

Cha

(320,526 posts)
35. So Happy for you and your Bride
Sun May 17, 2026, 12:25 AM
Yesterday

to be, Dan! In lieu of Champagne

Bon Voyage~💙 ☮️🌻 🕯️🕊️💜

FullySupportDems

(489 posts)
37. Congratulations!!!
Sun May 17, 2026, 12:37 AM
Yesterday

What a neat date for an anniversary, you won't forget it! Much happiness to you both

jfz9580m

(17,885 posts)
40. K&R
Sun May 17, 2026, 04:19 AM
Yesterday

I thought of you yesterday MCE. My best to your granddaughter.
Have not seen BossHog in a whole. He and AviationPro are the two military people I have seen around.

I am from a service family myself (not American but regardless). Have a soft spot for the services.

I wish you both all the very best.

BumRushDaShow

(172,175 posts)
43. Awwwwwwww. CONGRATULATIONS !!!
Sun May 17, 2026, 06:00 AM
23 hrs ago

I know you can't wait for the big day and wishing you and your SO the best of luck.

10 Turtle Day

(1,309 posts)
45. Congratulations! Wishing you a lifetime of love
Sun May 17, 2026, 06:46 AM
22 hrs ago

My dad was a marine and so incredibly handsome in his dress blues. Like a movie star. And you will be as well!

niyad

(134,007 posts)
56. Wishing you and your lady all the very, very best. And thank you both
Sun May 17, 2026, 08:14 AM
21 hrs ago

for giving me something wonderful to celebrate that day.

NNadir

(38,530 posts)
57. There is no greater privilege than to share in love.
Sun May 17, 2026, 08:26 AM
20 hrs ago

I wish you and your beloved all the joy of the beautiful things made more beautiful when shared, and all the power of overcoming life's setbacks together in the strength that only love can carry.

Congratulations!

Celerity

(54,848 posts)
73. Congratz MCE! I wish you a wonderful wedding and marriage, a life of deep connection and unwavering support.
Sun May 17, 2026, 10:32 AM
18 hrs ago

peppertree

(23,453 posts)
75. Kudos!
Sun May 17, 2026, 11:00 AM
18 hrs ago

As my wedding gift to you, let me please suggest you move the date up a week to Saturday June 27th - for astrological reasons.

As Biden would say: No joke! My parents made the mistake of not consulting an astrologer for their wedding date. They picked a bad day - and sure enough, it has not turned out well (though they're still together after 51 years!).

Please consider the change. If a week is too drastic, at least consider Sunday July 5th (or Saturday July 11th).

Either way, I wish you both All the Best!

Exp

(1,025 posts)
81. Congratulations! I took this lesson from Ben Franklin and so far it has worked: Keep your eyes wide open before
Sun May 17, 2026, 01:54 PM
15 hrs ago

marriage, half shut afterwards.

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