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speak easy

(12,595 posts)
Mon Mar 3, 2025, 01:09 PM Mar 2025

DU women, how can you bear to wear heels?

I wore heels once to a Rocky Horror party; I could not believe how painful it was! The question occurred to me after seeing Trump's horrible lifts.

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DU women, how can you bear to wear heels? (Original Post) speak easy Mar 2025 OP
Never have. Gave up bras in high school as well Walleye Mar 2025 #1
Same! we can do it Mar 2025 #10
I don't. Jilly_in_VA Mar 2025 #2
Our heel bone is designed to bear the full weight of a person. GreenWave Mar 2025 #3
I don't wear them, either synni Mar 2025 #4
I can't, and I don't. Ocelot II Mar 2025 #5
I ALWAYS thought some_of_us_are_sane Mar 2025 #6
There was a time when I could run in heels. Now mostly flats. I do love platforms and lug soles though. Solly Mack Mar 2025 #7
"a time when I could run in heels" (!) speak easy Mar 2025 #9
I couldn't run far but I could run far enough. I have an old pair of Vans that are my go-to when going out on errands. Solly Mack Mar 2025 #11
I haven't worn high heels in probably decades Diamond_Dog Mar 2025 #8
I can't. Your assessment is the same as mine: surrealAmerican Mar 2025 #12
My HR lady wears 3" heels every day with no issues jmowreader Mar 2025 #13
My heels are part of my foot, so I really don't have a choice. Fla Dem Mar 2025 #14
Why torture yourself when you can go barefoot in the grass or soft sand Clouds Passing Mar 2025 #15
walking with my heels flat on the ground is uncomfortable for my achilles Comrade Citizen Mar 2025 #16
Haven't worn them since high school, mwmisses4289 Mar 2025 #17
I got this weird blister on the ball of my feet after wearing 1 inch heels when I was 25. LeftInTX Mar 2025 #18
I used to work in an office where it was kind of expected. milestogo Mar 2025 #19
I don't wear them unless I absolutely have to, which is rare. Mad_Dem_X Mar 2025 #20

Jilly_in_VA

(13,783 posts)
2. I don't.
Mon Mar 3, 2025, 01:12 PM
Mar 2025

Last time I wore them was 13+ years ago at my friend's wedding. Got blisters, Swore never again and haven't. Even my wedding shoes barely had any and I kicked them off for the reception.

synni

(668 posts)
4. I don't wear them, either
Mon Mar 3, 2025, 01:13 PM
Mar 2025

If I even try on the pair of shoes with high heels, my back will ache for 3 weeks.

Ocelot II

(128,844 posts)
5. I can't, and I don't.
Mon Mar 3, 2025, 01:15 PM
Mar 2025

In my youth I wore heels for work, but not especially high ones. They really are hell on your feet, ankles and back.

some_of_us_are_sane

(2,675 posts)
6. I ALWAYS thought
Mon Mar 3, 2025, 01:18 PM
Mar 2025

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Trump's first response after being shot at, was ...'WHERE ARE MY SHOES!" The damn faker was in danger of being found out.

(P.S. - I cannot remember the last time I wore heels, but I'm sure it involved backpain and blisters.)

Solly Mack

(96,284 posts)
7. There was a time when I could run in heels. Now mostly flats. I do love platforms and lug soles though.
Mon Mar 3, 2025, 01:24 PM
Mar 2025

My feet are happiest in soft, ankle hugging house shoes.

speak easy

(12,595 posts)
9. "a time when I could run in heels" (!)
Mon Mar 3, 2025, 01:29 PM
Mar 2025

As a first timer, I could hardly walk. My feet are happiest in well worn sneakers.

Solly Mack

(96,284 posts)
11. I couldn't run far but I could run far enough. I have an old pair of Vans that are my go-to when going out on errands.
Mon Mar 3, 2025, 01:35 PM
Mar 2025

I stopped wearing high heels before they ruined my feet. Those growths/protrusions below/side of the big toe on some elderly women stopped me cold. Those were caused from constantly wearing high heels or so I was told by them.

Diamond_Dog

(39,646 posts)
8. I haven't worn high heels in probably decades
Mon Mar 3, 2025, 01:26 PM
Mar 2025

although I only wore them for a dressy occasions which wasn’t very often. They certainly do cause much pain!!

I see Melania wearing those tall spike heels and I can’t understand how she can stand it. I thought I read somewhere that Dumpy had a rule that all women working in the White House had to wear a dress with heels but that could have been made up.

surrealAmerican

(11,727 posts)
12. I can't. Your assessment is the same as mine:
Mon Mar 3, 2025, 01:40 PM
Mar 2025

They are painful and keep me from walking properly.


Heck, even a lot of non-high-heeled women's shoes are too uncomfortable for me. If my feet feel good, I can walk all day, with bad shoes, I can barely leave the house.

jmowreader

(52,870 posts)
13. My HR lady wears 3" heels every day with no issues
Mon Mar 3, 2025, 04:14 PM
Mar 2025

She says the secret to wearing high heels comfortably is to wear them every day, and to start with low heels.

Fla Dem

(27,403 posts)
14. My heels are part of my foot, so I really don't have a choice.
Mon Mar 3, 2025, 04:43 PM
Mar 2025


On a more serious note, I haven't worn heels in a long time. But I never had an issue with them. Fit is everything.

Comrade Citizen

(344 posts)
16. walking with my heels flat on the ground is uncomfortable for my achilles
Mon Mar 3, 2025, 11:52 PM
Mar 2025

These 1.5" blue suede shoes are comfortable for daily wear:

mwmisses4289

(3,110 posts)
17. Haven't worn them since high school,
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 01:43 AM
Mar 2025

when one of the heels got caught in a sidewalk crack and ended up with a twisted ankle. Highest I wear now is an inch to maybe an inch and a half. High heels just looking freaking ugly and uncomfortable.

LeftInTX

(34,013 posts)
18. I got this weird blister on the ball of my feet after wearing 1 inch heels when I was 25.
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 12:07 PM
Mar 2025

It wasn't a water filled blister, it was something else. Anyway, that was the end for me.

I've got really bad feet: Neuromas, ingrown toenails, plantar fasciitis, bouts of neuropathy.

So, it's been life of ugly shoes.

milestogo

(22,451 posts)
19. I used to work in an office where it was kind of expected.
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 12:53 PM
Mar 2025

It ended up that I had a drawer full of high heels at work, and wore athletic shoes while commuting. When I switched to IT I realized I would never have to wear them again, but I still had them.

At one point when I got a puppy he chewed up one high heel. So I gave him the matching one. Figured it was a sign to get rid of the rest.

Mad_Dem_X

(10,108 posts)
20. I don't wear them unless I absolutely have to, which is rare.
Tue Mar 4, 2025, 02:48 PM
Mar 2025

I can't stand heels. I'm always afraid I'm going to fall!

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