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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsJust got a call from the surgeon that my wife of 37 years did well with hip replacement surgery..
Sharing that with you guys because:
A. We can use all the good news we can get;
and
B, I'm sitting here by myself in the hospital cafe eating Cheetos by myself.
Hope she's good for another 37 years; I'll check the warranty.

Scrivener7
(55,967 posts)Permanut
(7,139 posts)Scrivener7
(55,967 posts)MIButterfly
(578 posts)That is good news. Here's to a swift recovery. I wish your wife all the best. Keep us posted.
Permanut
(7,139 posts)SheltieLover
(69,611 posts)Healing vibes on the way to her!
Permanut
(7,139 posts)Karadeniz
(24,498 posts)Permanut
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LoisB
(10,748 posts)Permanut
(7,139 posts)riversedge
(75,981 posts)Permanut
(7,139 posts)The physical therapist had her up and walking a couple of steps.
Tanuki
(15,905 posts)Best wishes for her full and speedy recovery, and many more blessed and joyous years together!
🥰🌷
Permanut
(7,139 posts)The whole thing is amazing to me.
NewLarry
(91 posts)All the best to both of y'all, and hopes for a speedy and complete recovery.
Tell her to put on her dancing shoes, and take her out!
Permanut
(7,139 posts)She should be ready in a few months, say August.
Figarosmom
(6,183 posts)My sister broke her hip and had a replacement. She limped for a while but didn't even have to take therapy.
walkingman
(9,355 posts)Figarosmom
(6,183 posts)My daughter is a physical therapist and she says hip replacements are not as bad as knee replacements. Use a cane or walker until you are comfortable walking without. Be mindful of every step and where you are placing your foot as you walk.
soldierant
(8,595 posts)replacement. I was told that by a PA at the orthopedic clinic which serves the Olympic Training Center when I was diagnosed with osteoarthritis in the left knee.
Permanut
(7,139 posts)walkingman
(9,355 posts)Permanut
(7,139 posts)Delightful to see her up already
3catwoman3
(26,831 posts)2 night hospital stay the first time. Home same afternoon and walking up the stairs unassisted with the second one - yikes!
Wishing your sweetheart an uneventful recovery.
Permanut
(7,139 posts)Sounds like you're on the way to being the Bionic Woman!
iluvtennis
(21,240 posts)
senseandsensibility
(22,446 posts)I wish her a speedy recovery!
Permanut
(7,139 posts)She just said "Hip, hip hooray!"
senseandsensibility
(22,446 posts)and that will serve her well during her recovery.
jrthin
(5,142 posts)Permanut
(7,139 posts)You're right, I wasn't breathing right while I was waiting.
rubbersole
(9,916 posts)But instead of Cheetos try Funyums. It speeds up the recovery. 😜
Permanut
(7,139 posts)Might take several doses.
leftieNanner
(15,978 posts)That means that you are her recovery coach. I did that for my husband twice. Be fierce with the exercises and she will get strong and able quickly.
Permanut
(7,139 posts)She wants to live life at a hundred miles an hour. I may have to put in some speed bumps.
Phoenix61
(18,383 posts)Permanut
(7,139 posts)surfered
(7,237 posts)Permanut
(7,139 posts)I'm retired, and so is she, so there's no escape!
wordstroken
(1,193 posts)You are not alone. Your DU familiar is right there beside you cheering you on.
Sending love and hugs to you both.
🦋 wordstroken
Permanut
(7,139 posts)Amaryllis
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(7,139 posts)Srkdqltr
(8,468 posts)Permanut
(7,139 posts)She'll be glad to hear your experience. Okay, just told her. Very reassuring, Srkdqltr.
Fla Dem
(26,777 posts)Last edited Wed Apr 23, 2025, 07:55 AM - Edit history (1)

Permanut
(7,139 posts)gademocrat7
(11,515 posts)Wishing you ur wife a good recovery. Take care🤗
Permanut
(7,139 posts)Tetrachloride
(8,764 posts)Permanut
(7,139 posts)Now that's a great warranty!
joanbarnes
(2,009 posts)Two years ago, pain is 100% gone. Best wishes to your wife.
Permanut
(7,139 posts)But it hasn't been even 24 hours yet. She will be very glad to hear your experience.
TommieMommy
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(7,139 posts)malaise
(285,154 posts)Heal quickly wifey😀
Permanut
(7,139 posts)OldSWODog
(101 posts)P, greetings. You're correct: good news (even from others) is enjoyed. I trust the rehab goes well; your bride will likely consider the PTs to be Torquemada understudies but, once completed, may she enjoy a newly functional joint. Cheers, OSD
Permanut
(7,139 posts)I'll be cheering from the sidelines.
HeartsCanHope
(1,075 posts)
Permanut
(7,139 posts)Andy Canuck
(310 posts)I hope shes up and running soon.
Permanut
(7,139 posts)I'm blown away by your response and all the good wishes on this thread. You have truly helped with her healing.
Nasruddin
(1,031 posts)Her career as a paratrooper, though, might be over
Permanut
(7,139 posts)And skydiving and bungee jumping may be out too.
aggiesal
(10,095 posts)Just teasing.
Again, good to hear.
Permanut
(7,139 posts)I'm just the muscle. I'm not gonna mess with that
NCgayguy
(169 posts)May You Both Be Healthy, Safe and Happy!
Permanut
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ShazzieB
(20,863 posts)Happy to hear it! I hope your wife has a fast and smooth recovery!
I've been nudging my husband to look into having a hip replaced. Not sure it would be the right choice for his situation, but I'm trying to get him to at least see an orthopedist to find out. Wish us luck, lol.
niyad
(124,291 posts)Permanut
(7,139 posts)niyad
(124,291 posts)niyad
(124,291 posts)for both of you. Your DU family is here for you, lean as hard as you neeed.
Cheetos??? Could you go down to the cafeteria, and at least get something more closely resembling actual food? Or have sonething delivered? Will you be staying there while?
Permanut
(7,139 posts)but the selection was nothing to brag about. Cheese pizza that looks like a doormat, you know the drill.
Thank you for your kind words, makes this challenge a little lighter.
electric_blue68
(21,723 posts)From my 2 experiences w PT
left shoulder [ripped rotators] in my late 30's (and Im a lefty)
tri-frsctured right ankle [got metal] in late 50's
If she does her PT about 96% of the time she should have excellent results. A little slack off allowed, but that's it.
Good Luck!
)))healing✨️vibes(((
Permanut
(7,139 posts)Thanks electrc_blue68!
electric_blue68
(21,723 posts)LQ_Dem
(5 posts)Had my right hip replaced four years ago. Use a walker for a few days. Then go to a cane. Then quickly toss it and start walking and ASAP bicycling. I rewarded myself by growing a beard. Don't stop...this is a long-term recovery. Hardest part was getting my golf swing back. Just didn't feel right for the longest time. I eventually changed my swing (for the better) and am now on track.
Permanut
(7,139 posts)I'm going to read your reply directly to her, it's like you know her. She's really just getting started on her recovery, but already frustrated about toddling around the house with the walker. She will be delighted with just the idea of using a cane instead.
We've spent a lot of time on the regular bikes; my brilliant idea about that is to get her an electric bike, maybe get her out on the road faster. I'm not telling her that part, her birthday is next week.
Hope22
(3,998 posts)Sending love to both of you!💗💗🙏🏼
Permanut
(7,139 posts)dai13sy
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(7,139 posts)OldBaldy1701E
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InAbLuEsTaTe
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(7,139 posts)calimary
(86,610 posts)Thanks for the good news! We ALL need it.
Permanut
(7,139 posts)Bluethroughu
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Permanut
(7,139 posts)She has enjoyed running just recreationally, so I'm hoping a long with you. Looks excellent, for her to get back to it
AllaN01Bear
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Permanut
(7,139 posts)Thanks AllaNO1Bear!
webhead usa
(2 posts)I had my surgery 9 years ago. No problems.
Make certain your wife does the rehab exercises.
Permanut
(7,139 posts)She's committed, and we're both retired, so no distractions, no excuses.
LetMyPeopleVote
(164,649 posts)Clouds Passing
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(7,139 posts)lark
(25,122 posts)Hope I do as well with my upcoming shoulder surgery.
Permanut
(7,139 posts)It's mind boggling to me as a non medical person that these joints can be replaced.
Best wishes back at ya for your upcoming surgery; let us know results! Just a side question about right or left, dominant side?
Erda
(185 posts)Here's to another 37+ years!
Permanut
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Peacetrain
(24,062 posts)My husband and I were married 37 years when I had a knee replacement.. and we did lots and lots of planning... and took those awesome trips (and are planning more) it seems like yesterday.. time flies..
Best wishes to your wife .
Permanut
(7,139 posts)We want to follow in your footsteps; number one on her bucket list is Paris, and we will be able to do that now.
femmedem
(8,509 posts)The recovery took a while, but now I feel as if there was never anything wrong. It sure feels great to be able to walk all over town again without limping.
Permanut
(7,139 posts)She will be delighted to hear your experience. She has the same question you probably had, about how long the recovery would take. Your perspective is great as someone who's been there.
femmedem
(8,509 posts)First, did the surgeon use the anterior or posterior approach? Mine used the posterior approach, partly because of a congenital hip abnormality and partly because it's what he's more experienced at. This approach slows the recovery time, but the outcome ends up being just as good.
Second, does she have any conditions that would make her recovery slower than usual?
I know one person who had the anterior approach who was walking on the beach with no walking aids within a few days. It took me over a month to ditch the cane, but again, I have an abnormality that slowed my recovery.
However long it takes, she'll be happy she had it done!
Permanut
(7,139 posts)No pre existing conditions, and health generally good.
Dorothy V
(334 posts)Make sure she goes to all her PT!
spooky3
(37,552 posts)Permanut
(7,139 posts)I'm gonna play this for her immediately.
FemDemERA
(513 posts)Hope her recovery goes smoothly.
Permanut
(7,139 posts)She's off to a good start. We have that kind of house where you can loop around through the kitchen, dining, living room and hall back to where you started, so she's doing laps (well, only one so far).
ailsagirl
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Duncanpup
(14,597 posts)Permanut
(7,139 posts)when I was a kid people had a bad hip they just had to live with it.
Ford_Prefect
(8,394 posts)
Permanut
(7,139 posts)but she'll get it back.
Vinca
(52,191 posts)Permanut
(7,139 posts)And she was in surgery less than two hours.
Emile
(35,077 posts)Permanut
(7,139 posts)but my wife says all men do.
IbogaProject
(4,487 posts)Sorrow shared is halved
Native saying
Permanut
(7,139 posts)dem4decades
(12,838 posts)And thanks, we here can use all the good news we can get.
Permanut
(7,139 posts)It has been recommended that my wife increase her protein intake during her recuperation.
So, even though we don't eat much beef, we decided that tonight we're going with the Applebee's $9.99 burger special.
Of course, I'm going for the bacon cheese version because, oh, reasons.