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FirstLight

(14,984 posts)
Thu Apr 24, 2025, 12:37 PM Yesterday

I'm so excited! My Kid will be here tonight!!! She's 23 and I haven't seen her since 2022!!

She moved at a bad time...My mom had passed and Dad was in bad shape, her roommate was a mental health nightmare, I was still drinking and the bad ex was living with me...

SO much growth from us on BOTH sides and I am so grateful I still have this relationship. She's my 'ride or die' kid... my mini me. I know you're not 'supposed' to have favorites, but I am just so excited to hang out with her!

She's flying home to Sac from NC...then going to court with me tomorrow while I testify at the ex's trial for felony DV/great bodily harm... 2 counts!
That bitch tried to keep me from seeng or even speaking to my kids. Now my son and gf are happily relocated to Reno. And my daughter and her bf are gonna move back too...CA is safer for trans folks than NC!

So I'm getting the house spruced up, so she doesn't think I live in squalor. LOL and I'm gonna get her bed all set up in the office... cuz by the tme we drive back to Tahoe from Sac we'll both be trashed tired!
At least court isn't till 1:00pm tomorrow...

I'm so excited to hug my baby!!!

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I'm so excited! My Kid will be here tonight!!! She's 23 and I haven't seen her since 2022!! (Original Post) FirstLight Yesterday OP
I'm so happy for you. MIButterfly Yesterday #1
Thank so much! FirstLight Yesterday #2
Enjoy!!! SheltieLover Yesterday #3
How awesome for you! Basso8vb Yesterday #4
Very happy for you! people Yesterday #5
I am happy for you! ...and her. LoisB Yesterday #6
This its a very happy story. Thanks Alpeduez21 23 hrs ago #7
I am so happy for you! lucca18 23 hrs ago #8
Happy for you. Hope all goes better than you think. Srkdqltr 23 hrs ago #9
I'm so glad you're sharing your uplifting and inspiring story with your DU family, FirstLight. wordstroken 23 hrs ago #10
Thanks... DU *is* family! for better or worse lol FirstLight 23 hrs ago #11
Maybe that's an omen of better times -- and happier photos -- ahead for you, FirstLight. wordstroken 22 hrs ago #13
I can hear the unbridled joy in your words FirstLight! JMCKUSICK 22 hrs ago #12
Ditto HoosierDebbie 22 hrs ago #16
So happy for you as well. I have two living overseas (one in Italy an one in THe Netherlands),so it's a very happy iluvtennis 22 hrs ago #14
Your excitement has me infected, too!!! Karadeniz 22 hrs ago #15
i hear ya. mopinko 22 hrs ago #17
I told her to not be upset if I cry when I see her and FirstLight 22 hrs ago #18
How neat! Figarosmom 22 hrs ago #19
yes! gonna go to our fave places tomorrow for breakfast and dinner! FirstLight 22 hrs ago #20
Awww... She made herself right at home 🏡 FirstLight 10 hrs ago #21
Enjoy your reunion! electric_blue68 10 hrs ago #22

MIButterfly

(304 posts)
1. I'm so happy for you.
Thu Apr 24, 2025, 12:45 PM
Yesterday

I hope you have a wonderful visit with your daughter and things go well for you in Court.

Looks like good times are ahead for both of you. Enjoy! You deserve it.

FirstLight

(14,984 posts)
2. Thank so much!
Thu Apr 24, 2025, 12:48 PM
Yesterday

I know some of you have watched the whole mess as I've come here to vent and cry etc...

LOTS of deep trauma therapy!
good stuff, cleaned out the old gunk...so new life can take root

wordstroken

(1,094 posts)
10. I'm so glad you're sharing your uplifting and inspiring story with your DU family, FirstLight.
Thu Apr 24, 2025, 02:07 PM
23 hrs ago

I’ve been there and totally understand your struggles — which hopefully are now in the past, with only calm and loving days ahead for you and your huggable baby!!

Keep us posted.

FirstLight

(14,984 posts)
11. Thanks... DU *is* family! for better or worse lol
Thu Apr 24, 2025, 02:17 PM
23 hrs ago

I know I was really strung out a lot when posting through all the ick...so I am also very glad to be feeling the UPswing!

Ironically, m entire FB profile and business page was deleted this morning! 12+ years of life/pics... gone (I downloaded, bbut dont know of it's accessible yet)

I guess the Universe is REALLY pushing for a NEW START!

wordstroken

(1,094 posts)
13. Maybe that's an omen of better times -- and happier photos -- ahead for you, FirstLight.
Thu Apr 24, 2025, 02:46 PM
22 hrs ago

I pray you are surrounded by love and happiness as you move forward.

JMCKUSICK

(1,996 posts)
12. I can hear the unbridled joy in your words FirstLight!
Thu Apr 24, 2025, 02:28 PM
22 hrs ago

May your time together heal old wounds and create new bonds.

iluvtennis

(21,152 posts)
14. So happy for you as well. I have two living overseas (one in Italy an one in THe Netherlands),so it's a very happy
Thu Apr 24, 2025, 02:48 PM
22 hrs ago

when they visit or I visit.

Enjoy your time with your daughter.

mopinko

(72,307 posts)
17. i hear ya.
Thu Apr 24, 2025, 02:57 PM
22 hrs ago

my recent health scare led to reconnecting w my middle kid. she is also my mini me.
she’ll b in town next month for a friend’s wedding. i cant wait to see her.

FirstLight

(14,984 posts)
18. I told her to not be upset if I cry when I see her and
Thu Apr 24, 2025, 03:10 PM
22 hrs ago

I'm gonna "hug the stuffing" outta her!

She's sending me updates from the trip, lol
I really appreciate her taking the time off work and also spendng two days of travel for ONE day here in court! (heading back Saturday... )

FirstLight

(14,984 posts)
20. yes! gonna go to our fave places tomorrow for breakfast and dinner!
Thu Apr 24, 2025, 03:23 PM
22 hrs ago

She's missed her hometown very much...

FirstLight

(14,984 posts)
21. Awww... She made herself right at home 🏡
Fri Apr 25, 2025, 02:35 AM
10 hrs ago

Tooka shower and is talking to her bf right now till he goes to bed.

She had to take over my car radio on the way home and show me a new band that she loves...lol just like old times when she was in high school 😂

We had to go to In n Out burgers on the way home... All the old haunts. 🥰 She even suggested breakfast at our local restaurant 🤗

Deep sigh... Content. That's a good word for it...

She says the house feels truly mine now 🥰 that's the best compliment ever!

Ill let you know how court goes. Honestly, I am not even worried...I got my family by my side. ( And my parents are guardian angels 😇

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