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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsI'm so excited! My Kid will be here tonight!!! She's 23 and I haven't seen her since 2022!!
She moved at a bad time...My mom had passed and Dad was in bad shape, her roommate was a mental health nightmare, I was still drinking and the bad ex was living with me...
SO much growth from us on BOTH sides and I am so grateful I still have this relationship. She's my 'ride or die' kid... my mini me. I know you're not 'supposed' to have favorites, but I am just so excited to hang out with her!
She's flying home to Sac from NC...then going to court with me tomorrow while I testify at the ex's trial for felony DV/great bodily harm... 2 counts!
That bitch tried to keep me from seeng or even speaking to my kids. Now my son and gf are happily relocated to Reno. And my daughter and her bf are gonna move back too...CA is safer for trans folks than NC!
So I'm getting the house spruced up, so she doesn't think I live in squalor. LOL and I'm gonna get her bed all set up in the office... cuz by the tme we drive back to Tahoe from Sac we'll both be trashed tired!
At least court isn't till 1:00pm tomorrow...
I'm so excited to hug my baby!!!

MIButterfly
(304 posts)I hope you have a wonderful visit with your daughter and things go well for you in Court.
Looks like good times are ahead for both of you. Enjoy! You deserve it.
FirstLight
(14,984 posts)I know some of you have watched the whole mess as I've come here to vent and cry etc...
LOTS of deep trauma therapy!
good stuff, cleaned out the old gunk...so new life can take root
SheltieLover
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Basso8vb
(874 posts)I love seeing posts like these.
people
(775 posts)LoisB
(10,189 posts)Alpeduez21
(1,924 posts)Good luck in court
lucca18
(1,386 posts)Have a wonderful time with your daughter.
Srkdqltr
(8,281 posts)wordstroken
(1,094 posts)Ive been there and totally understand your struggles which hopefully are now in the past, with only calm and loving days ahead for you and your huggable baby!!
Keep us posted.
FirstLight
(14,984 posts)I know I was really strung out a lot when posting through all the ick...so I am also very glad to be feeling the UPswing!
Ironically, m entire FB profile and business page was deleted this morning! 12+ years of life/pics... gone (I downloaded, bbut dont know of it's accessible yet)
I guess the Universe is REALLY pushing for a NEW START!
wordstroken
(1,094 posts)I pray you are surrounded by love and happiness as you move forward.
JMCKUSICK
(1,996 posts)May your time together heal old wounds and create new bonds.
HoosierDebbie
(416 posts)iluvtennis
(21,152 posts)when they visit or I visit.
Enjoy your time with your daughter.
Karadeniz
(24,242 posts)mopinko
(72,307 posts)my recent health scare led to reconnecting w my middle kid. she is also my mini me.
shell b in town next month for a friends wedding. i cant wait to see her.
FirstLight
(14,984 posts)I'm gonna "hug the stuffing" outta her!
She's sending me updates from the trip, lol
I really appreciate her taking the time off work and also spendng two days of travel for ONE day here in court! (heading back Saturday... )
Figarosmom
(5,296 posts)Have fun when you can.
FirstLight
(14,984 posts)She's missed her hometown very much...
FirstLight
(14,984 posts)Tooka shower and is talking to her bf right now till he goes to bed.
She had to take over my car radio on the way home and show me a new band that she loves...lol just like old times when she was in high school 😂
We had to go to In n Out burgers on the way home... All the old haunts. 🥰 She even suggested breakfast at our local restaurant 🤗
Deep sigh... Content. That's a good word for it...
She says the house feels truly mine now 🥰 that's the best compliment ever!
Ill let you know how court goes. Honestly, I am not even worried...I got my family by my side. ( And my parents are guardian angels 😇