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[tavalon]

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[tavalon]

1. And he ignored the part where I told him I didn't want to correspond anymore until he had

one year of sobriety under his belt.

So I blocked his email.

[Old Codger]

2. First

Take care of yourself, you don't need that in your life, you are doing a lot of work and this sort of thing makes it harder... good to block it out.... You HP is with you listen hard.

[tavalon]

3. Well, I used to phrase my recovery in terms of how I was blocking his recovery by not focusing on my

own. What he did was disrespectful of me and I won't have it.

[Old Codger]

4. Good

The only person you can change is you.