of laws, and
not of men.
—John Adams
FOR
DEMOCRACY
flower of
the partisan
Who died
for freedom
Drive MAGA
Back Under
Their Rocks
like I do
now."
- Professor
Irwin
Corey
once
enlightened
cannot again
become
dark
all the stickies
on Grovelbot's
Big Board!
RECEIVED FIRST HALF OF SETTLEMENT TODAY!
2D HALF DUE IN JANUARY!!!
YAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!

maddezmom
(135,060 posts)Happy Holidays and here's to new beginnings this New Year.
elleng
(140,424 posts)Thanks, maddez!
maddezmom
(135,060 posts)I'm hoping to be in the same boat..................soon.
elleng
(140,424 posts)
maddezmom
(135,060 posts)
elleng
(140,424 posts)
Took my first vaca/trip this past weekend, and it felt great! Planning future trips, BUT STILL awaiting 2d of 2 payments, due by end of January. We'll see.
maddezmom
(135,060 posts)With a few fellow Du'ers. It was a great time and the best part is I'll be able to write a check to my cc and pay for it in full. . looking forward to my next adventure.
hope you had a great time on yours and you get the next one on time so you can plan another one soon.
elleng
(140,424 posts)and as I only have a debit card, its all done! Had a fine time, w cousin + her family I see all too infrequently.
You went with DUers??? WOW! I did that last spring!
Between my last post and this one, heard from the p.o.s., and told him a thing or two, including I MAY seek Contempt Citation against him if he doesn't comply in a timely fashion! NO MORE Ms. Nice Me, ENOUGH!
elleng
(140,424 posts)SO HAPPY for us! So glad we're together in our success (however belated.)
Sent the p.o.s. an e.mail yesterday, after he wrote a 'hedging' message; I was unusually hard-a**ed, and guess what? He wrote back this afternoon: "Will mail the check Monday."
maddezmom
(135,060 posts)
Mira
(22,581 posts)in one place
I'm so happy for you, this frees you up emotionally!
elleng
(140,424 posts)Sure was long time coming! Negotiated agreement 13 months ago!!!
Looking into investing most of it, but thinking about some restaurants and travel too!
Mira
(22,581 posts)elleng
(140,424 posts)Travel will follow, I promise!
And theater! and concerts!
av8rdave
(10,642 posts)elleng
(140,424 posts)laundry_queen
(8,646 posts)What a load off and what a great way to start the New Year!!
elleng
(140,424 posts)Thanks
theexwife
(52 posts)Till I am in your position. My divorce is still dragging on. Year three to be exact. He is SUCH a prick. LOL...but that is saved for another thread...
elleng
(140,424 posts)We didn't divorce, just separated, in an agonizing fashion, cost me $$$ in attorney fees but I retain our family federal medical coverage as a supplement to medicare. And the 'end' of this story about which I wrote in '11, he passed on 1 year ago. Daughters and godchildren received a lot as beneficiaries, and at the end, maybe because I'd been helping him with some medical matters, he provided for me via survivor annuity (from his federal employment) and I also receive a soc sec survivor benefit, so tho I wasn't beneficiary of any of his investments, my finances have improved, enabling me to rent a cottage and vastly improve my surroundings, like this, every night:
And have 1 grandson, born last December, and one coming, due July 20, and living near me.
theexwife
(52 posts)As sad as it sounds, it sounds like your life it turning around for the better....my best wishes to you...
elleng
(140,424 posts)Daughters still pretty upset about his death.
And best to you too, ex.