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harumph

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11. I think that's spot on with many of them -
Mon Dec 8, 2025, 08:53 AM
Dec 8

In other cases, they like him because it makes them believe they're effectual when they may feel
ineffectual in their lives. By being part of the Trump support, they're shaking things up, etc. If there hadn't been so many lonely and economically challenged people in the US leading up to 2016, he would never have won. But the more desperate people get, the more angry they get and want to burn it all down - not realizing how much they personally would suffer. The less educated citizenry and even the reasonably educated but narcissistic citizens both have something major in common: they either fail to appreciate - or worse yet - disdain complexity and don't concede how (we) are economically connected. They have experienced that even when things get bad, or more expensive, they can still buy gas, food, or take an air flight to visit a relative. They have no g-damn idea about
all the moving parts that must move in concert to make sure items are on the shelves or really, no idea how anything works at all. They conceive of it as just something that simply works - they reduce the US economy to a countertop appliance. At the other end of the spectrum, some MAGA-friendly billionaires have a slightly different blind spot. Maybe early on they were able to invest in something that really took off. So after a few million here and there, and with the help of financial advisors, it's inconceivable (they believe) for them to suffer an existential wealth loss. Having such wealth, they don't need to make the effort to buy their own groceries. They don't fly commercial. They hire people to curate their purchases. They don't even select the art that hangs on their walls. They get out-of-touch, bored and dangerous. Feeling empty - because let's face it - they know in their heart of hearts it could've been somebody else in their position - they desperately want to matter, and in wanting to matter, they start get "ideas." Some of these ideas come straight from sci-fi novels.

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I feel your pain. Haggard Celine Dec 8 #1
Thank you so much for your kind response! Coventina Dec 8 #3
I understand. If my father were alive today, he'd be just like your father. no_hypocrisy Dec 8 #2
somehow, I get the feeling that "owning the libs" with just petty barbs and jokes Coventina Dec 8 #4
Very insightful comment...people feel inadequate in this complicated world nt lostnfound Dec 8 #5
To MAGA relatives, Trump feels like the most important family member they've got lostnfound Dec 8 #6
I think that's spot on with many of them - harumph Dec 8 #11
So sorry to hear that wolfie001 Dec 8 #7
The boyfriend answered, "A coffin full of Trump." Do they come in that size? usaf-vet Dec 8 #8
I am so very sorry Tesha Dec 8 #9
I hope the boyfriend apologizes for his response. alcuno Dec 8 #10
I'm so sorry... Of all the horrible things Trump has done.... Happy Hoosier Dec 8 #12
I have always believed that politics do not belong in family communications. MineralMan Dec 8 #13
That's my philosophy. Xolodno Dec 9 #29
Absolutely blubunyip Dec 9 #32
Cue up the DUers scolding those of us who shun MAGAt relatives and friends Arazi Dec 8 #14
There's a significant gap between shunning and deliberately antagonizing EdmondDantes_ Dec 8 #15
lol, so in *THIS* exchange the Dem family member got snarky first Arazi Dec 8 #16
From the evidence presented, that's an assumption EdmondDantes_ Dec 8 #24
Often, that gap is little more than inference. Torchlight Dec 8 #18
I'm so sorry 😔 MustLoveBeagles Dec 8 #17
Sounds like there is pain on both sides GreatGazoo Dec 8 #19
Wondering how we can deprogram 70 million cult members? Emile Dec 8 #20
Start arresting Fox News hosts? Initech Dec 8 #22
The Boyfriend should have refrained from that "joke". maxsolomon Dec 8 #21
I'm sorry your sister got such a fierce response from your father.... electric_blue68 Dec 8 #23
I would have saved that joke for someone other than family. Iggo Dec 8 #25
I'll agree with you. Deuxcents Dec 8 #27
I'm sorry . Republican voters are mean and their vileness and explosiveness increases with age....because.... Bread and Circuses Dec 8 #26
Just as they project their weaknesses, failure and fears on others, Jabba the Orange Hutt is a projection of themselves. usonian Dec 9 #28
Sorry to disagree. tavernier Dec 9 #30
I would be pissed, but I certainly wouldn't jump to, "That means you want me dead too." Scrivener7 Dec 9 #31
I agree. The dad is blubunyip Dec 9 #33
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