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Sympthsical

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20. There are good and bad therapists
Tue Mar 31, 2026, 02:17 PM
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A good therapist can literally save your life. A bad one can ruin it.

Unfortunately, pop therapists and the Internet are giving the practice a real dirty name. And how our culture now kind of talks in this weaponized therapy speak is not great.

I haven't needed therapy in years, but when I did, I was glad I managed to find two good ones. And they weren't the first ones I found. It's a weeding process. You have to look around to find one on your wavelength.

Our society really doesn't teach people how to cope. With stress, anxiety, fear, inferiority, frustration, anger. Any of it. If someone's raised with good support, be that friends, family, or community, they may naturally acquire those skills. But a nice healthy chunk of our society is let out into the world with no idea how to navigate the mental pitfalls. Some are lucky to learn along the way, some are resilient, some adapt, and some crumble.

A good mental health worker should never be discounted.

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Its junk science, all of it. Johonny Tuesday #1
Suicide the final outcome? yankee87 Tuesday #3
We need to fire all of Rupert Murdoch's clowns at every level. Initech Tuesday #2
Weird ruling. Free speech behind a closed door medical treatment. bucolic_frolic Tuesday #4
This message was self-deleted by its author Sympthsical Tuesday #5
Was hate speech ever illegal? pcdb Tuesday #12
There is not a "hate speech" exception to the First Amendment. tritsofme Wednesday #28
It was pretty clear cut in this instance Sympthsical Tuesday #6
The law protects abhorrent speech too EdmondDantes_ Tuesday #7
Except they clearly don't believe that dsc Tuesday #8
Perfect answer yankee87 Tuesday #10
Sotomayor and Kagan didn't cocur with that decision Jose Garcia Tuesday #13
No they didn't but Alito, Thomas, and Roberts surely did dsc Tuesday #14
But they both did concur with the cons in this case. Celerity Tuesday #15
Disagree yankee87 Tuesday #11
There are a lot of terrible therapists in this world Sympthsical Tuesday #19
Kagan touched on this in her concurrence Shrek Wednesday #27
Therapy itself is questionable gulliver Tuesday #9
This message was self-deleted by its author PeaceWave Tuesday #17
I've no doubt you've met more than your share n/t Torchlight Tuesday #23
Questionable at its best. Cerulean Southpaw Tuesday #18
There are good and bad therapists Sympthsical Tuesday #20
Your point about the importance of social support... gulliver Tuesday #24
Absolutely. Those are the bad ones. Sympthsical Wednesday #26
In every profession there are the good and bad luv2fly Tuesday #25
I Wonder if this will Pave the Way... NEOH Tuesday #16
Sad, but true yankee87 Tuesday #21
Deadline Legal Blog-Supreme Court sides with Christian counselor over Colorado on 'conversion therapy' for minors LetMyPeopleVote Tuesday #22
I am EXTREMELY disappointed that Justices Kagan and Sotomayor went along with this . . . markpkessinger Wednesday #29
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