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35. Moms. Damn. I'm sorry Jackcrow.
Fri Jun 12, 2026, 07:50 PM
Friday

If it snowed overnight, mine would make breakfast, then go outside, get a handful of snow and squeeze it and squeeze it until her little hands were ice cold. Then she'd sneak in my room and put them on my back.

Then she'd smile ever so sweetly and say, "Breakfast is ready."

A few months later, in the spring, she would walk around the back of the house to find a small green hose coiled up like a snake. My mom had nerves of steel (Navy Airman) and laughed at things that would terrify mortal humans (bungie jumping off a Chinese bridge at ate 75), but she was scared ti death of snakes. Or hoses that looked like snakes.

I was evily cackling in the kitchen, listening to her scream, when the door flew open and she caught me and knew I did it on purpose.

You are going to miss your mom, friend. My only suggestion is when you start to feel blue, think of a time that can only bring a smile to your face. You don't have to wallow in the end, you can relive all the good parts with some effort. Hugs to you.

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My Mother passed away this week. [View all] jackcrow2001 Friday OP
condolences markie Friday #1
Deepest condolences SheltieLover Friday #2
Sorry for you. My mother was also 82 when she passed surfered Friday #3
I am so sorry for your loss MIButterfly Friday #4
Deepest sympathy to you, your sisters malaise Friday #5
Healing vibes for you and your family on the loss of your mother. niyad Friday #6
I am so sorry for your loss. It's actually Ilsa Friday #7
She sounded like such a grand woman. RIP and I am sorry for your loss. Passages Friday #8
May her soul soar! Sending you and your family hugs and condolences. MLAA Friday #9
Condolences to You and your Family marked50 Friday #10
My deepest condolences to you and your family brer cat Friday #11
A profound passing and a moonscape Friday #12
She sounds like she was a wonderful person mcar Friday #13
Sympathies and prayer for you and yours B.See Friday #14
Sorry for your loss, jackcrow2001 senseandsensibility Friday #15
Your mom seemed a lot like my own mother. La Coliniere Friday #16
I'm so sorry for your loss. StarryNite Friday #17
My deepest condolences. sinkingfeeling Friday #18
I am so sorry for the loss of your mother Grim Chieftain Friday #19
Nothing prepares us. Deep condolences, jackcrow2001. We love you. ❤️ littlemissmartypants Friday #20
Condolences, strength to you, and your family electric_blue68 Friday #21
So sorry for your loss SocialDemocrat61 Friday #22
My condolences to you and your family... Spazito Friday #23
So sorry, jackcrow2001, may the memories of your dear mother be a blessing to you debm55 Friday #24
I'm so sorry for your loss. yardwork Friday #25
Sorry to hear that. Figarosmom Friday #26
I am so very sorry. The loss of one's mother is profound and earth shifting. Bumbles Friday #27
I'm sorry for your loss. Ocelot II Friday #28
The memories of your dear Mother will help get you through this. democrank Friday #29
... alwaysinasnit Friday #30
Sincerest condolences. nt in2herbs Friday #31
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My condolences. Love to you and hers. MerryBlooms Friday #33
My condolences. mr715 Friday #34
Moms. Damn. I'm sorry Jackcrow. Teacher of the Year Friday #35
sorry about losing your mom.... peacebuzzard Friday #36
She sounds like an interesting mom. My condolences for your loss. chowder66 Friday #37
I'm sorry cate94 Friday #38
Very sorry for your loss. GoodRaisin Friday #39
I am very sorry for your loss. LoisB Friday #40
Bless her. Joinfortmill Friday #41
She sounds like a wonderful woman Laurelin Yesterday #42
I'm sorry for your loss. live love laugh Yesterday #43
My condolences. May your mother rest in peace. oasis Yesterday #44
Well, she probably has a great seat Upstairs - from which to watch (and savor) everything! calimary Yesterday #45
I'm sorry for your loss and I'm especially sorry... Trueblue Texan Yesterday #46
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My condolences for your loss. Xavier Breath Yesterday #49
I'm so sorry for your loss. area51 Yesterday #50
My family's sincere condolences ❤️ underpants Yesterday #51
My sympathy mdbl Yesterday #52
My condolences. murielm99 Yesterday #53
I'm so sorry. Scrivener7 Yesterday #54
So sorry your mom didn't outlive the ugly monstrosity. 58Sunliner 23 hrs ago #55
My your mother Rest in Peace and May her Memory be a Blessing. n/t iluvtennis 23 hrs ago #56
So sorry for your loss. MissouriDem47 22 hrs ago #57
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