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H2O Man

(79,551 posts)
17. I agree with you
Sun Jul 12, 2026, 04:17 PM
Sunday

regarding insults about his being gay. And I haven't heard anyone claim that he was involved in exploiting children until today on DU, which I am unaware of there being any serious sourcing for. So those things should be avoided, in my opinion. Hence I recommended the post.

I don't believe he was being blackmailed. I doubt that if the felon were to have noted that Lindsey was gay, exactly zero people would have gone into shock. I think that he was a fella that had to ride along with a stronger man, like McCain or the felon. There are, for good or for bad, lots of human beings that fit that description.

Yesterday, while conversing with a friend about our class reunion this coming weekend, he mentioned another classmate who recently moved in our very rural neighborhood -- if it qualifies as such -- with his partner. He told my friend that he had recently coming out of the closet. Good for him. I couldn't imagine what it must have been like for him all these years.

I would also think that "race" is not what one should focus on when Clarence dies. I'd suggest holding off on even having serious discussions on how things may have influenced personality structure & features.

On the other hand, I do enjoy good dark humor. It is essential in rough times. I recognize it is not for evereyone. For example, earlier today, to be nice, I said I hoped Lindsey would be okay. One person was confused by that.

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I agree that being gay in or out of the closet is not fair game. 1WorldHope Sunday #1
I agree Lifeafter70 Sunday #12
Then please don't link the two as if gender-based sexual orientation Ms. Toad Sunday #20
I get how you feel. Dunc Sunday #2
People are just letting off steam is a poor excuse sarisataka Sunday #5
It is us against them. Dunc Sunday #10
I'll take that as a yes to racism sarisataka Sunday #11
Clarence Thomas died? appmanga Sunday #25
Wishful slip... sarisataka Sunday #29
I wish that wasn't a typo. 1WorldHope Sunday #28
Please don't compare Bluestocking Sunday #30
It is not a comparison of the men sarisataka Sunday #31
I agree. Shouldn't be saying that kind of stuff. electric_blue68 Monday #38
Saying nothing is best lame54 Sunday #3
Yes bdamomma Sunday #18
homophobic slurs Get a hide vote from me... Ohio Joe Sunday #4
Being dead doesn't give him a pass, but homophobic slurs is not acceptable at all uppityperson Sunday #6
I wish I could say I am surprised sarisataka Sunday #7
I believe that he was correct on Ukraine and russia, Crunchy Frog Sunday #8
Your statement is the closest to what I'd have to say..my only agreement with him was his support for Ukraine. Deuxcents Sunday #13
He supported anti-gay agenda, so yes, he's fair game. The hypocrisy is breathtaking. Doodley Sunday #9
while it is OK to question his hypocrisy Skittles Sunday #15
Please educate me. What do you think the word 'princess' means in this specific context? Doodley Monday #34
not EVEN gonna fucking bother Skittles Monday #37
Too easy to be the word police. Doodley Monday #39
I agree Skittles Sunday #14
Thing is, those you've blocked may not care a bit that you've blocked them. paleotn Sunday #16
I agree with you H2O Man Sunday #17
Let's face it, the man had no spine. infullview Sunday #19
I don't like it one bit. All this gay rumor comes from the simple fact he never married. valleyrogue Sunday #21
Agreed, but do you see the irony in the opening post that speculates that he was gay? Doodley Monday #35
I doubt he was "blackmailed" over his alleged sexuality. He was an opportunist. valleyrogue Sunday #22
I have mixed feelings on this because I don't want to hurt others But NewEnglandAutumn Sunday #23
Slurs are out of bounds IMO but I think it's okay to wonder about ir in the context you mentioned. BannonsLiver Sunday #24
I do NOT give a darn about Graham's sexual orientation LetMyPeopleVote Sunday #26
His sexuality is not important Keepthesoulalive Sunday #27
You didn't speculate about his sexuality, like the OP did. Notice the irony! Doodley Monday #36
He was a reasonable person before John doc03 Sunday #32
I actually agreed with Graham Martin Eden Sunday #33
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