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daredtowork

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49. Please feel free to message me
Thu May 7, 2015, 11:29 AM
May 2015

But fair warning - like a lot of people in this position, I have a LOT of appointments, and I check DU at very random times.

I did understand you wanted to employ some people in a regular basis to build your platform. But I also thought I saw a component where you could hire people on ad hoc basis to supply them with that temporary "rent-meeting" need so they wouldn't have to make repeat visits to DU. I thought that was an excellent aspect since people could be vetted somehow.

I do think the vetting process would have to be clarified a lot. As a person who is in that position right now, I can't underscore strongly enough the urge to resist people taking over your life. A LOT of people do take over your life. My life is currently OWNED by social services, the department of rehabilitation, the employment programs I engage in, the various trades I do in order to keep my housing (this is the alternative to asking for help from DU, so this is a lot of highly scheduled work), medical appointments, bureaucratic appointments (advocates, social programs, trying to find other housing...). I also lacked transportation to get from place to place. I was drowning in this - and then I got something like a life coach just to help me manage the appointments, but the appointments with HER sucked up 8 hours a week, which cut into the trade-for-housing time, which added a lot of stress.

I'm pretty much a work slave right now, but I did things this way because I was desperate to keep my personal autonomy until I could get a full time job and get "outside" the poverty bureaucracy system. I wanted to stay where I was living instead of become homeless and/or move from shelter to shelter. I wanted to choose what I eat, when I went to sleep, and sneak little "privileges" when I could. I wanted to keep living like an adult human being as long as I could. As I said in my other post, it is exactly like an elderly adult trying to stave off the possibility their children are going to "put them in a home" (except you might be homeless).

Most of the people who get in the "ask DU" situation are ones that fall into the SSI application gap. It would be great if Wishadoo could help with that and give people a way to survive with dignity until their situation gets resolved.

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K&R OGR! A worthy discussion topic. riderinthestorm May 2015 #1
Hello, you... OneGrassRoot May 2015 #37
OGR, I was thinking of you the other day. I think many here are afraid of being scammed with Arkansas Granny May 2015 #2
I hear you, Arkansas Granny... OneGrassRoot May 2015 #38
Yes, I've been well. Arkansas Granny May 2015 #61
hmm I almost never check wishadoo hfojvt May 2015 #3
There would be no reason to check Wishadoo of late... OneGrassRoot May 2015 #5
I think you're on the right track, particularly with regard to local resources. n/t lumberjack_jeff May 2015 #4
I would love to see Wishadoo come back! Suich May 2015 #6
gofundme does not work unless you are a right wing bigot. I have been trying to get help to jwirr May 2015 #9
I don't want to just help people out of a tight spot. notadmblnd May 2015 #7
Oh, believe me, I'm with you... OneGrassRoot May 2015 #8
I guess that is sort of what it is now notadmblnd May 2015 #10
Good business. But you have to have people who are rich enough to pay for it. While I was taking jwirr May 2015 #11
low pay working for someone is the reason I decided I could do it myself notadmblnd May 2015 #12
At least you are paying your own help decently. The county did not have a lot of money designated jwirr May 2015 #16
Welcome notadmblnd May 2015 #18
I'll give this a kick cwydro May 2015 #13
I missed the post Omaha Steve May 2015 #14
You're a treasure, OS... OneGrassRoot May 2015 #21
Ancient Treasure Omaha Steve May 2015 #24
K&R Good post and good luck. justhanginon May 2015 #15
+1 Dont call me Shirley May 2015 #17
In reading this I am reminded of the calls to "redistribute wealth"- which are all fine jtuck004 May 2015 #19
Right now... OneGrassRoot May 2015 #39
Great idea. You idea is very good and very much needed. greatlaurel May 2015 #20
k&r -nt Ohio Joe May 2015 #22
I won't be able to kick or respond to the above comments... OneGrassRoot May 2015 #23
Kicking for your compassionate heart Hekate May 2015 #25
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kicking for One Grass Root, who is a treasure. . . .n/t annabanana May 2015 #26
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K&R rosesaylavee May 2015 #27
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K&R nt Andy823 May 2015 #28
K&R chervilant May 2015 #29
k&R nt Mojorabbit May 2015 #30
KnR. nt tblue37 May 2015 #31
Keeping this kicked. nt Terra Alta May 2015 #32
This is a really great idea daredtowork May 2015 #33
I saw your post in that TtW thread... OneGrassRoot May 2015 #36
Please feel free to message me daredtowork May 2015 #49
Everything you said I have found to be true as well... OneGrassRoot May 2015 #50
You know me. I will help where I can, OneGrassRoot. NYC_SKP May 2015 #34
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Kicking vanlassie May 2015 #35
A kick for a good person with a heart of gold. nt herding cats May 2015 #44
QUESTIONS about polls here on DU OneGrassRoot May 2015 #45
You see the names... Phentex May 2015 #46
Darn...but thanks. :) n/t OneGrassRoot May 2015 #51
Would you consider PM's of the same questions?... Phentex May 2015 #52
Yes, I was just checking out SurveyMonkey. OneGrassRoot May 2015 #54
I have a lot of thoughts... Phentex May 2015 #55
Please do. :) n/t OneGrassRoot May 2015 #58
k and r for visibility niyad May 2015 #47
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Kick and Rec and..... steve2470 May 2015 #48
K&R nt Sophiegirl May 2015 #53
kick kick kick! BobbyBoring May 2015 #56
Kicking catchnrelease May 2015 #57
I'm bookmarking this for a proper read later tkmorris May 2015 #60
Rec and a big KICK! SaveOurDemocracy May 2015 #62
I went on Wishadoo a few weeks ago out of curiosity Quayblue May 2015 #63
K&R again kdmorris May 2015 #64
Hi. :) OneGrassRoot May 2015 #65
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