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OldBaldy1701E

(8,541 posts)
17. I apologize for being 'blunt'.
Fri Jul 25, 2025, 10:40 AM
Jul 25

Another Taurus trait.

Also, anyone who finds what I am saying to be difficult... go live with a narcissistic slob for a decade. Or, in my case, two of them.

You will find the strength to change yourself then. Or you will become one of them. Since I know I would go insane just trying to be a slob (I was raised by a fastidious nurse so I just can't do it. Hell, I pick up little trash on the street. Not necessarily big things. Just a piece of paper blowing by. I fold up the wash rag after I use it. I wipe down the sink after I get some water!), I have to do what I can.

The 'missing words' thing is particularly tough for myself because I scored perfect on the English part of the SAT. I could have been an English major or the like, I suppose. (My personal favorite during 'placement' sessions was that I was very qualified for being an 'Air Traffic Controller'. Which is ironically funny considering all the time I spent in the tower while in the Civil Air Patrol as the 'radio guru'. I was not controlling traffic, but our comm station was usually in the tower. Maybe not on the top level, but usually near it.) I did pursue a career that involved these skills. One certainly needs to be decent at English if one wants to be a songwriter or an actor.

Thanks, Mother. I am not sure if your upbringing in this matter was a good thing, but it has had its benefits.

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yes NJCher Jul 23 #1
O-tay - let's see if I can remember, but thanks anyway! UTUSN Jul 23 #2
Lol NJCher Jul 24 #3
Practicing Mindfulness should help and that also may relieve stress. KY_EnviroGuy Jul 24 #4
I've been trying something a little similar - zeroing in attention when putting things down UTUSN Jul 24 #5
Use it like a medication taken when needed, not as a constant activity. KY_EnviroGuy Jul 24 #9
Thanks. Been using thank-you as a mantra randomly for things/events/tasks, waking up UTUSN Jul 24 #10
Thank you! KY_EnviroGuy Jul 25 #11
''A new study showed higher dietary sodium was associated with a higher risk of memory deterioration ... Donkees Jul 24 #6
So, bananas are 'good' again? OldBaldy1701E Jul 25 #13
It's more about keeping electrolytes in balance when there is high sodium intake Donkees Jul 25 #14
Yes. I was making a joke about how one minute something is bad, and the next moment it is 'safe'. OldBaldy1701E Jul 25 #16
One thing I've done recently, and it has to do with finding my cell phone, is to only have one spot in each room where Abolishinist Jul 24 #7
Yip, have been trying extra focus putting things down UTUSN Jul 24 #8
I adjust. OldBaldy1701E Jul 25 #12
Thanks! - hah, Taurus, Pisces here with common ground situation! UTUSN Jul 25 #15
I apologize for being 'blunt'. OldBaldy1701E Jul 25 #17
Well, I *was* an English (Lit) major! - And, to coin a cliche (hah), you're as sharp as a tack!1 UTUSN Jul 25 #19
its been a age old question and you are not alone here . AllaN01Bear Jul 25 #18
Thanks for the "not alone' - that *is* a good thing, no? UTUSN Jul 25 #20
i dont know . AllaN01Bear Jul 25 #21
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