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hunter

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11. My parents moved into my brother's guest house. That was their "assisted living."

Reply to CTyankee (Original post)

Thu Aug 28, 2025, 06:25 PM

Aug 28

My mom hated driving, so that was not an issue. But my dad loved to drive and this became a problem.

Our family had similar issues with my dad's dad. They did not give up driving gracefully.

My mom's mom, my crazy grandma as I call her here on DU, was something worse. She knew she wasn't safe to drive herself but some of the people she convinced to drive her around, or some of the people she'd lend her car to... OMG!

If my grandma was ever an accessory to a liquor store robbery I don't want to know.

I know that's not your situation, but I'd like to live in a society where I don't have to own a car to be considered a fully functional adult.

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Anybody here in Assisted Living? [View all] CTyankee Aug 28 OP

We are in a Catholic Charities independent living situation that will evolve into assisted care too. We have kept..... FadedMullet Aug 28 #1

I'm all for it but the issue is having the car when the living facility provides for transportation to doctor's appts. CTyankee Aug 28 #4

We keep the car because it is nice to help others. FadedMullet Aug 28 #8

Do you still drive? bamagal62 Aug 28 #2

We lease our vehicle, we don't own it. And we might have to switch docs anyway as ours will be too far away for CTyankee Aug 28 #5

It's one thing to choose to stop driving... Trueblue Texan Aug 28 #10

When my dad moved into a senior apartment complex he still had a car, Ocelot II Aug 28 #3

I have relatives Marthe48 Aug 28 #6

My wife, an RN, has worked with and for AL homes. multigraincracker Aug 28 #7

We will check with them. They might have had this problem arise before. CTyankee Aug 28 #9

My parents moved into my brother's guest house. That was their "assisted living." hunter Aug 28 #11

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