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missingthebigdog

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4. You treated her like an adult.
Wed Jun 8, 2016, 01:50 PM
Jun 2016

She's a graduate student!

I think one factor we have is that we have extended childhood into the mid to late twenties. In some ways, this is great: young people can stay on their parent's health insurance, and parents and other adults seem more supportive of giving them time to develop into who they want to be. But when it extends to protecting them from the realities of the world, or hesitating to confront them when they are wrong about something, we do them a HUGE disservice.

Too many people believe that if their assertions go unchallenged that makes them true.

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Help with a political disagreement. [View all] redstatebluegirl Jun 2016 OP
yep. They have no idea how hard it really is. nt BootinUp Jun 2016 #1
I told her I came out of college in the 70's wanting to change the world. redstatebluegirl Jun 2016 #3
I know you said she's a very nice young woman, sarae Jun 2016 #11
Does her new utopia just euthanize at 40 or what? Maru Kitteh Jun 2016 #12
Some of us had similar thoughts when we were younger wysi Jun 2016 #13
You last few words really are a telling story. tonyt53 Jun 2016 #2
You treated her like an adult. missingthebigdog Jun 2016 #4
I have seen this in my work with students. redstatebluegirl Jun 2016 #8
This seems familiar. DURHAM D Jun 2016 #5
One of the tragedies of Bernie's revolution is that it focused on stirring up underthematrix Jun 2016 #6
Totally agree, I think they are so angry they don't see the big picture or redstatebluegirl Jun 2016 #7
I wouldn't assume that the discussion will have zero effect. nt BootinUp Jun 2016 #10
Indeed... wysi Jun 2016 #14
Some of them have their ears perpetually blocked to DemonGoddess Jun 2016 #9
not sure what your field is drray23 Jun 2016 #15
She is a biology graduate student. redstatebluegirl Jun 2016 #19
Let's get one thing clear! There is NOTHING AT ALL wrong with... Corporate666 Jun 2016 #16
Hey Redstatebluegirl---Please don't beat yourself up about losing your cool. The fact that she was skylucy Jun 2016 #17
Thank you! I'm hoping she is thinking about this. redstatebluegirl Jun 2016 #18
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