is there actually people who believe that all men are rapists and attracted to little girls

[lumberjack_jeff]

35. The gulf in male perceptions isn't "rape is/isn't a problem".

It's better illustrated by your comment.

men should start redefining what is acceptable behavior and what isn't. We should change the culture, not the elevators.

It's up to you to explain to us how you can believe that men in general:
a) believe rape is acceptable behavior.
b) collectively, and without any input from women create the culture in which it is.
c) despite having created a legal system in which the crime is treated harshly upon conviction.

Unlike any other crime, men who are accused of rape have a very high hurdle to clear to prove their innocence (see Crystal Mangum).

Up until this post, I was listening. I do agree that it's important to understand how women's perceptions of the world affect them. I don't agree that I'm responsible for the behavior of every man, nor have I created a culture in which rape is acceptable.