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Showing Original Post only (View all)Male Sexual Response [View all]
http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/2013/02/01/male-sexual-response/As I stated in Women & Sex, until a woman lives in 12.5 to 17 times her present testosterone levels 24/7 she cannot ever understand male sexuality. And since she lives in a fem-centric reality (both personally and socially) her awareness and expectations of male sexuality is defined by the only terms she has a frame of reference for  female sexuality.
So it should come as no shock that women are bewildered (and disgusted) by a male sexual response that is incongruent with their own. They want to force fit it. In the Feminine Reality I stated:
For one gender to realize their sexual imperative the other must sacrifice their own. This is the root source of power the feminine imperative uses to establish its own reality as the normative one.
One of the reasons I repeatedly assert that women lack a fundamental appreciation for the sacrifices men make to facilitate their reality finds its roots in womens lacking a male frame of reference. In general, Men are far more self-controlled than any woman can realistically understand. When we analyze the realities of the male sex response and the underlying biology that contributes to it, the control men exert over it is actually a triumph of evolved psychology and social directive.
Women are shocked that men are literally, neurologically wired to see them as sex objects. The parts of our brains that are attuned to using tools is stimulated when we see scantily dressed women. Women may be horrified by this, but one thing you will never hear them utter is a word of how astounding it is that men (largely) have such psychological self-control over it.
						
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        Before the predictable howls o' outrage ensue, I will say that anecdotally there is a lot of
        Warren DeMontague
        Feb 2013
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        And again, I think it's a made-up phenomenon dressed up as "science", that some people have decided
        Warren DeMontague
        Feb 2013
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        It is presented as an allegedly scientific concept. And unless YOU are the one doing the
        Warren DeMontague
        Feb 2013
        #20
      
        
        i remember testoerone poisoning - i think alan alda was throwing that around in the 70's
        leftyohiolib
        Feb 2013
        #9
      
        
        Well, I refuse to believe there is anything abnormal or wrong with the average guy.
        Denninmi
        Feb 2013
        #11
      
        
        I don't think painting it with the MRA title is fair but I can see the strategy.
        Bonobo
        Feb 2013
        #15
      
        
        I agree that no one deserves a "prize" for being a decent human being. That aspect bugged me, too.
        Warren DeMontague
        Feb 2013
        #18
      
        
        Still, it's not helpful. In my experience some folks here think merely saying "MRA" is some sort of
        Warren DeMontague
        Feb 2013
        #22
      
        
        There seem to be a lot of women who immediately pull the disgust card....
        ProudToBeBlueInRhody
        Feb 2013
        #24
      
        
        AFAIC, there's nothing wrong with the latter one, either. Lots of people -of both genders- like sex.
        Warren DeMontague
        Feb 2013
        #25
      
        
        Like I said, anecdotally there seems to be a lot of stuff about the effect of testosterone, as
        Warren DeMontague
        Feb 2013
        #30
      
        
        That was my point, to the one who said "I don't want my 5 year old watching beyonce!"
        Warren DeMontague
        Feb 2013
        #29