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redqueen

(115,185 posts)
Wed Jan 4, 2012, 10:46 AM Jan 2012

Wiring Sexual Tastes to Hairless Genitals...Oops! [View all]

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/cupids-poisoned-arrow/201201/wiring-sexual-tastes-hairless-genitalsoops

At present, our culture both underestimates the power of erotic cues and misinterprets their significance. That is, sexual cues are presumed harmless because sexual tastes are thought to be hardwired whatever one views. Two circular assumptions follow from this faulty premise: First, we assume that what one climaxes to reveals one's unalterable nature; and second, we assume that if one begins climaxing to something incongruous one is merely discovering one's "true" nature. Such flawed reasoning arose in part due to medical politics which gave rise to a staunch refusal to investigate the plastic effects of sexual behaviors on the brain's delicate reward circuitry.

Actual experience, however, suggests that intense stimulation can alter sexual tastes in some brains. Indeed, some of today's Internet porn users are undergoing unnerving changes in their brains and arousal patterns—a possibility now well explained by many experiments revealing the plasticity of the brain . These changes are difficult to reverse while porn use continues. In short, sexual cues that start out as insubstantial and meaningless as cobwebs can become cables, that is, can lay down brain pathways that are given high priority because they are associated with the intense reward of orgasm.

In past articles we've pointed out that these changes can be very disturbing if they are mistaken for changes in fundamental sexual orientation. But they can also be less dramatic. Consider this guy's experience:

Justin: I used to have a big thing for enlarged breasts. Yesterday there was a clip on the news about girls with silicone implants and their health hazards. They showed a lot of these girls on the beach etc., which would once have got me drooling and set me off on a porn frenzy. But after a month without porn, they actually looked weird. The unnatural, augmented breasts put me off. I was thinking, "Why would they do this to themselves? What's the big deal about big breasts?" And this is from a guy who spent a lot of his life worshiping them.


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Excellent article. CrispyQ Jan 2012 #1
1 month old. i think as a society we are feeding a perversion. and like with rape seabeyond Jan 2012 #3
I like to hope it will get better over time. redqueen Jan 2012 #5
truly excellent article iverglas Jan 2012 #2
I don't know about deprogramming, I think the only solution provided redqueen Jan 2012 #6
Interesting. BlueIris Jan 2012 #4
It really is. redqueen Jan 2012 #7
Excellent article. snagglepuss Feb 2012 #8
Not so "Hairy" Potter: PassingFair Feb 2012 #9
That is a stretch One_Life_To_Give Feb 2012 #10
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