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Addiction & Recovery

Stuart G

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5. What is your secondary purpose of being here? Please explain clearly

Reply to Un Spun (Reply #2)

Tue Jul 14, 2020, 06:05 PM

Jul 2020

If you are not here for recovery, why are you here?

,,,If your friend heeds help and wants to show up, let her show up. Forget this...have her show up. Let her ask the questions. Let her come on her own. We do not need an observer for someone else. We need interested people in this group. Not observers for others.

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Thanks irisblue Nov 2017 #1

Here to learn, so I can help another. Un Spun Jul 2020 #2

I'm more interested in your secondary purpose. marble falls Jul 2020 #3

... NurseJackie Jul 2020 #4

What is your secondary purpose of being here? Please explain clearly Stuart G Jul 2020 #5

Welcome to another user in recovery. You can let your friend know, we'll be happy to talk to her irisblue Jul 2020 #6