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Hornedfrog2000

(775 posts)
50. That is awesome
Wed Aug 13, 2025, 04:44 AM
Aug 13

I was almost 30. Had 2 OWIs. I had no drivers license, was only a highschool dropout, and had nothing. It was 2015, and I met someone I wanted to marry, but knew that would never be possible with how i was living. I knew my life was going to be hard, regardless, but I could make it hard on my terms. I was going to work harder than I ever have. I was going to give myself a chance because when I really thought about it, I had always defaulted to, " you cant do that, or you arent good at that", but i never gave myself a chance.

Trump stole the whitehouse with the help of Putin, and I knew I had to get ahead, because they would literally try to steal even more from us (this was literally my big reason for turning my life around). Fastforward to 2025 I am in graduate school for my doctorate, and will be making more money than I had ever imagined.

I used "welfare", grants, etc to get to this point. Without them I would have never had a chance. I appreciate the minute, fractional percentage of help i received from everyones taxes to help me become a productive member of society. I will never forget that I would not be here without charity, welfare, and kindness of others.

I have never been the smartest person, but being succesful sometimes is about finding a way, any way.

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Forty years sober today. [View all] rzemanfl Aug 12 OP
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Mine was 2-17-95. 634-5789 Aug 12 #12
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That is a big deal! hope your family is really proud! rurallib Aug 12 #16
Congratulations rzemanfl JMCKUSICK Aug 12 #17
Well done. Torrent63 Aug 12 #18
My kidneys told me to cut it out many moons ago. GreenWave Aug 12 #19
That is a huge triumph - good on you! 3catwoman3 Aug 12 #20
33 years here Wifes husband Aug 12 #22
And a hat tip to you, too, and everyone else who battles this demon. 3catwoman3 Aug 12 #23
That's a lot of days. Well done, you! n/t TygrBright Aug 12 #21
Congratulations gerryatwork Aug 12 #24
This message was self-deleted by its author Kali999 Aug 12 #25
Congratulations! 4Sitka Aug 12 #26
That's wonderful cate94 Aug 12 #27
May your success be an inspiration to many others struggling with addiction!! ShazzieB Aug 12 #28
I am glad if you are glad. (n/t) OldBaldy1701E Aug 12 #29
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It can be done. NoMoreRepugs Aug 12 #31
You are verifiably worth the effort it took. n/t ariadne0614 Aug 12 #32
Nicely done! Permanut Aug 12 #33
Wonderful! I am now convinced that no one should drink alcohol. CTyankee Aug 12 #34
good! markie Aug 12 #35
You turned your life around - and it's great to let people know it can be done FakeNoose Aug 12 #36
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Thank you for sharing it can be done and Congratulations! Rhiannon12866 Aug 12 #40
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That's good! Turbineguy Aug 12 #45
I only wish I'd quit at the same age as you. LudwigPastorius Aug 12 #46
Congratulations - Time Flies When You're Having Fun Doesn't It? MissouriDem47 Aug 13 #47
Sept. 1st wil be my 1 year Anniversary of no booze proud patriot Aug 13 #48
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That is awesome Hornedfrog2000 Aug 13 #50
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It is a very big deal and important what you have achieved Pachamama Aug 13 #55
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I have a birthday Saturday and was just thinking I should have been dead 20-plus years ago. johnnyplankton Aug 13 #57
Mr. Rambling is on Day 4 of outpatient rehab. Right now I find it hard to go out to eat, especially since most of the RamblingRose Aug 13 #58
Keep on keepin on WmChris Aug 13 #59
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Kudos! bif Aug 13 #61
Wow! Congratulations! An outstanding achievement! NNadir Aug 13 #62
applause Bluejeans Aug 13 #63
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Yes, the building is gone. rzemanfl Aug 13 #70
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Fantastic rzemanfl 😃 Clouds Passing Aug 13 #66
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Huge achievement. Will-power of steel. Much applause to you. n/t SpankMe Aug 13 #69
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