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highplainsdem

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15. Sending hugs and healing energy, Sparkly. Thank you for this brave, inspiring post. Good for you for
Sun Jan 4, 2026, 09:40 PM
Jan 2026

writing a memoir, but re what you said here

I've started writing memoirs, but get stuck and stall each time there's a painful chapter.


please realize that you don't have to work your way through the memoir in order. Write about what you want to write about, when it comes to mind. As long as you add a note about the time period to everything you write, it will be simple to organize, and you'll probably be less likely to get stuck.

Discovered Dr. Brian Weiss and others, and the belief in continuity of life makes death less frightening.


I'm glad you have that belief. I'm not religious - left the church I was raised in when I was a teenager - but various experiences and especially time with grief support groups, and hearing about experiences others have had, left me with no doubt that we continue on, and there are reunions with loved ones, both people and pets.

I believe our spirits are much more than what we're aware of here, and especially more than any statistics that might limit us. I'm wishing you much more time with new therapies, and I think there's a good chance you'll see Trump get his sorry ass kicked.

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You are a brave and generous soul Sparkly. Irish_Dem Jan 2026 #1
Peace. cachukis Jan 2026 #2
Happy for your interactions with your granddaughter! True Dough Jan 2026 #3
Perhaps you don't realize how inspiring that is bucolic_frolic Jan 2026 #4
Healing vibes on the way to you. SheltieLover Jan 2026 #5
Sending love. ❤️ littlemissmartypants Jan 2026 #6
good shit can happen, as easily as bad shit Kali Jan 2026 #7
Keep fighting! Klondike Kat Jan 2026 #8
Do keep going, Sparkly. You may surprise yourself brer cat Jan 2026 #9
#FuckCancer irisblue Jan 2026 #10
You are an inspiration to us all, Sparkly. Grim Chieftain Jan 2026 #11
That's the spirit! Thank you for your heartfelt sharing. ancianita Jan 2026 #12
An uplifting and courageous post. Thank you, we will keep fighting and your & in our names. NBachers Jan 2026 #13
I hope that you are around longer than the doctors predicted. 1WorldHope Jan 2026 #14
Sending hugs and healing energy, Sparkly. Thank you for this brave, inspiring post. Good for you for highplainsdem Jan 2026 #15
Wishing you only the best in the days and months ahead. Fla Dem Jan 2026 #16
Stay strong, Sparkly gademocrat7 Jan 2026 #17
Hoping for only more good news. You are inspiring. we can do it Jan 2026 #18
You are in my thoughts and prayers. Staph Jan 2026 #19
Sending you all the very best. hamsterjill Jan 2026 #20
So glad you spent time with your granddaughter mountain grammy Jan 2026 #21
Sending hugs 🤗. n/t iluvtennis Jan 2026 #22
Good luck to you in your fight. lastlib Jan 2026 #23
Vibes to you and your loved ones in this hard, hard time. applegrove Jan 2026 #24
Sparkly, so very great to see you! babylonsister Jan 2026 #25
Cancer sucks. murielm99 Jan 2026 #26
Comfort, nurturing and healing energies to you Sparkly 💖🧡💚 Clouds Passing Jan 2026 #27
God bless. I prayed for your recovery. Joinfortmill Jan 2026 #28
Miracle Marvin Jones Jan 2026 #29
I will proud patriot Jan 2026 #30
I am just overwhelmed Sparkly Jan 9 #31
Warmth and support Lifeafter70 Mar 6 #32
I'm glad you're still here, Sparkly. Laurelin Mar 6 #33
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