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In reply to the discussion: Having a hard time lately with anxiety and depression [View all]FirstLight
(15,626 posts)I had a "friend" for 20 years, we raised our kids together and saw eachother all the time, played cards and shared dinner as the kids grew up and moved out.
Then I had another friend from across the country come and move in with me. She turned on me and said this person would "take me for all I had" and that they had to "protect themselves" I ended it right then and there.
My new roommate has been with me a year and we are the best friends and platonic nesting partners I know. Too bad that other friend was too worried about money or whatever to be happy for me having someone who could live with me and be there where she couldn't.
C'est La Vie! You are valuable as a person and people who turn on you or show their true colors are at least showing you so you can distance yourself from the damage. It hurts, but you realize after the fact that YOU matter most. :hugs:
I hope this helped a little...
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