OMG, my epiphany is hitting me like a falling brick wall.

[Siwsan]

4. I had a narcissistic co-worker who tormented me for about 9 years

She was in an ongoing litigation issue with the company so the ONLY thing they could do was 'talk' to her.

The worst part was she ramped things up when I was already going through hell with my mom and sister dying and having to look after my 98 year old aunt.

I retired 3 years early to get away from her.

The company I worked for was 'absorbed' by another so any protection she had likely disappeared. I have no idea what happened to her.

I can't imagine having to go through that kind of thing from a sibling.