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XanaDUer2

(15,763 posts)
Sun Feb 18, 2024, 05:06 PM Feb 2024

Money-obsessed half sister creeping me out [View all]

I finally checked her FB page ( I know, I know) out of curiosity after a month of no contact. She's still steaming, I'm assuming, about me not co signing a huge loan. Meme about family will travel far to bury you, but not cross the street to "help" you .

Well, I'm not traveling far to bury her, either. Her adult daughter will have to handle that. Scary to think a relative views you as a source of huge amounts of money. I hope there's not some bogus life insurance policy out on me.

Totally disgusted at this point. She's a financial disaster, btw.

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Shake that sand from your sandal. Take that pebble out of your shoe! marble falls Feb 2024 #1
I told my BF if I'm killed in an accident XanaDUer2 Feb 2024 #2
Get a letter to your lawyer! marble falls Feb 2024 #3
She's no stranger to violence XanaDUer2 Feb 2024 #4
Fair warning: My sister co-signed a large loan for a family member. FuzzyRabbit Feb 2024 #5
Way ahead of you XanaDUer2 Feb 2024 #6
Tell her Judge Judy says never to co-sign. spooky3 Feb 2024 #7
Thank you XanaDUer2 Feb 2024 #14
Good. I used to be a loan officer for a credit union. Midnight Writer Feb 2024 #10
My niece is a spoiled 25 yr old brat XanaDUer2 Feb 2024 #11
If she ever ask for anything again, multigraincracker Feb 2024 #8
I'm no contact XanaDUer2 Feb 2024 #9
I would speak to a good lawyer. multigraincracker Feb 2024 #12
Ty so much XanaDUer2 Feb 2024 #13
People need co-signers because they don't have good credit. Demobrat Feb 2024 #15
She claims she just declared. Bankruptcy XanaDUer2 Feb 2024 #18
Wow. And yet, you are somehow supposed to believe Demobrat Feb 2024 #19
Well, My issue is not that I did not pay bills. OldBaldy1701E Feb 2024 #22
Having a credit card doesn't mean you have to overspend. Demobrat Feb 2024 #23
They want you to spend money you don't have. OldBaldy1701E Feb 2024 #24
They are safer than carrying cash. Demobrat Feb 2024 #29
Not fun. limbicnuminousity Feb 2024 #16
No. It irritated me XanaDUer2 Feb 2024 #17
It's hard when people walk away Demobrat Feb 2024 #20
True XanaDUer2 Feb 2024 #21
"Scary to think a relative views you as a source of huge amounts of money." OldBaldy1701E Feb 2024 #25
Establish boundaries, know the laws and rules, and stick to them bucolic_frolic Feb 2024 #26
I hear you. Joinfortmill Feb 2024 #27
Who expects a 58 yr old XanaDUer2 Feb 2024 #28
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