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In reply to the discussion: Was I wrong? [View all]

XanaDUer2

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13. Ive been discussing that
Thu May 2, 2024, 09:21 AM
May 2024

Very thing with friends and relatives. As my SO, I keep turning to him for help and comfort. I'm the ACoA w with some emotional/ mental problems. I have terrible anxiety. I was just vomiting earlier from it.

I should just accept the Financials, avoid arguments, do my own thing. If he wants to pay for a concert, I'll go and enjoy it. We'll argue about catfood. I never dreamed this would be my life at my age.

My financial reality exists. I don't want to be homeless. I'll kill myself first.

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Was I wrong? [View all] XanaDUer2 May 2024 OP
You did nothing wrong. You did not embarrass the tech by asking him to explain Ocelot II May 2024 #1
He won't leave XanaDUer2 May 2024 #4
No. You spent the money, and deserved a full explanation of the services performed ms liberty May 2024 #2
Ty he meant it was a bad idea to XanaDUer2 May 2024 #3
He's a first class asshole XanaDUer2 May 2024 #5
Wow Goddessartist May 2024 #6
I consider myself emotionally abused XanaDUer2 May 2024 #7
You are. Goddessartist May 2024 #8
TY! XanaDUer2 May 2024 #9
Its called the honeymoon period XanaDUer2 May 2024 #10
You two have reached the fork in the road.....your purpose in life is not to Karadeniz May 2024 #11
You're better off going without him. Iris May 2024 #12
Ive been discussing that XanaDUer2 May 2024 #13
Yes. Making sure you have shelter is taking care of yourself. Iris May 2024 #14
Ty. I tried hobbling along w the temp splints XanaDUer2 May 2024 #15
I have GAD and OCD XanaDUer2 May 2024 #16
Hes apologized twice XanaDUer2 May 2024 #17
Dear XanaDUer2 you did nothing wrong. debm55 May 2024 #18
Thanks XanaDUer2 May 2024 #19
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