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SunSeeker

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18. Yep, retirement doesn't mean sitting around. Be sure to guard your time in retirement.

Sat Jul 20, 2019, 05:51 PM

Jul 2019

All the things you've been putting off doing in your home are now things you have time to do. But be careful. Once people realize you're retired, they won't respect your time as much, and will expect you to do stuff for them all day long, as if your time is now limitless. You didn't retire to be someone's gopher. You worked your ass off your whole adult life so you could do what YOU want in retirement. You deserve it. Remember that and be careful about committing your time to any person/organization unless it is truly making you happy to do it.

You only have so many really good years of health left, where you can travel and do physically demanding stuff. Don't squander it doing other people's chores. Do stuff YOU want to do. If what you want is to work in your garden, then go for it. But if not, hire a gardener and free yourself to do other stuff. I'm telling you this because I wish someone had told me that when I retired.

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I've been retired for almost one year now [View all] bearfan454 Jul 2019 OP

Thing about retirement... safeinOhio Jul 2019 #1

You're not kidding bearfan454 Jul 2019 #7

When my husband retired from teaching Ohiogal Jul 2019 #2

I love my retirement. Polly Hennessey Jul 2019 #3

Having 7 Saturdays each week is pretty cool! NRaleighLiberal Jul 2019 #4

June 30 was the second anniversary of my last day at work calguy Jul 2019 #5

Retirement happiness surprised me srobertss Jul 2019 #6

Retiring, when I did, was one of the smartest things I've ever done Siwsan Jul 2019 #8

Your life sounds wonderful. Good for you! kstewart33 Jul 2019 #13

I do well doing nothing. Is that a positive or a negative? demosincebirth Jul 2019 #9

People always ask me what I'm doing with my time srobertss Jul 2019 #16

I thought I'd want to travel more too, but I don't. SunSeeker Jul 2019 #19

Right there with you two Bradshaw3 Jul 2019 #32

Yes, the best is just hanging out with folks you love in local spots you love. SunSeeker Jul 2019 #36

That's interesting, because I always thought I'd want to travel more, too. But I'm Nay Jul 2019 #37

I've been retired about seven years. Mr.Bill Jul 2019 #10

Thank you! MLAA Jul 2019 #21

The pleasure is all mine. Mr.Bill Jul 2019 #23

After working my arse off in the corporate world for 35 years and raising a family, OMGWTF Jul 2019 #11

It's six years for me after BHDem53 Jul 2019 #12

30 days to go for me Fiendish Thingy Jul 2019 #14

Looking forward to it extvbroadcaster Jul 2019 #15

My wife's been after me retire like her. I told her she's not retired, she's just working for free. marble falls Jul 2019 #17

Yep, retirement doesn't mean sitting around. Be sure to guard your time in retirement. SunSeeker Jul 2019 #18

me too! mike_c Jul 2019 #20

My biggest accomplishment since I retired was spending time exercising to get really fit. MLAA Jul 2019 #22

Me and my 14 year old dog go for walks every day bearfan454 Jul 2019 #24

Daisy sounds like a very lucky girl! MLAA Jul 2019 #38

It's been 20 years. trof Jul 2019 #25

Same here demosincebirth Aug 2019 #39

The best part of it is when you wake up early in the morning, look outside and see The Velveteen Ocelot Jul 2019 #26

I have been retired for 10 years now, the best job I ever had. You have to keep busy. The worst doc03 Jul 2019 #27

We are three years in and loving it. LakeArenal Jul 2019 #28

I loved reading this thread and I look forward to the day when I can join you!!! Nt spooky3 Jul 2019 #29

Nine years and loving it marigold20 Jul 2019 #30

Somedays I wonder how Runningdawg Jul 2019 #31

When I was a young longhair all I wanted was to not work, get high and listen to music Bradshaw3 Jul 2019 #33

Three years this summer and totally enjoying retirement. Golden Raisin Jul 2019 #34

I have never understood people who PoindexterOglethorpe Jul 2019 #35