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True Dough

(23,809 posts)
18. Just now introduced as a sport?
Sat Feb 4, 2023, 07:35 AM
Feb 2023

I remember girls high school wrestling about 25 years ago in a few areas near where I lived at the time. I don't know for sure all these years later, but I don't believe any of those girls turned out to be serial killers. They are probably well-adjusted despite all that time on the mats.

What always concerns me, however, is men coaching high school girls teams. I'm sure 90% of those men are honest, upstanding citizens with no ill-intent. But we've heard so many stories of volleyball coaches, and gymnastics coaches, and basketball coaches and so on sexually exploiting their young female players. Wrestling, with its physicality, strikes me as a very vulnerable space for the young ladies with "handsy" male coach.

So should men not be allowed to coach high school girls sports? Of course they should! But I think at least one woman should be present during all practices and games to ensure there's no funny stuff taking place, or at least limit the opportunity.

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What? Lunabell Feb 2023 #1
Right, and I guess then I don't like it. a kennedy Feb 2023 #4
How should I feel about someone asking that question? NoMoreRepugs Feb 2023 #2
*shrug* don't know how you should feel, I don't like it. a kennedy Feb 2023 #5
Unless it's you. None of your business. LakeArenal Feb 2023 #3
Ok. a kennedy Feb 2023 #6
Wrestling who? Guys? Other girls? As a sport or just in general around the school? Are you a student Srkdqltr Feb 2023 #7
Sorry, high school girls are now wrestling other high school girls, and I'm just a viewer of local a kennedy Feb 2023 #8
Good for them. Sports are good for girls and guys, keeps them busy. Srkdqltr Feb 2023 #9
I would just like women or young women could find a sport just for them, and not a copy of a kennedy Feb 2023 #12
Geeezzzz Srkdqltr Feb 2023 #13
Are you serious? we can do it Feb 2023 #20
Just now introduced as a sport? True Dough Feb 2023 #18
'Twister' would be a better sport for high school students than wrestling. 70sEraVet Feb 2023 #10
This message was self-deleted by its author Dum Aloo Feb 2023 #11
What? enough Feb 2023 #14
This is the dumbest post I've ever seen on DU MomInTheCrowd Feb 2023 #15
and thank you for coming to DU, oh, and for your opinion. a kennedy Feb 2023 #17
I hate boys Rebl2 Feb 2023 #16
This is a bizarre thread. I don't think I have anything to add to it, unless cboy4 has hacked... madinmaryland Feb 2023 #19
It's a sport. Probably safer than football, soccer, field hockey, ... JustABozoOnThisBus Feb 2023 #21
If there are enough girls who want to wrestle MuseRider Feb 2023 #22
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