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2. Tarana Burke's METoo movement began 10 yrs ago. What a story!
Tue Sep 25, 2018, 01:22 PM
Sep 2018
https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.cnn.com/cnn/2017/10/17/us/me-too-tarana-burke-origin-trnd/index.html

From the article:

Then
"Burke is the program director for Brooklyn-based Girls for Gender Equity. Its goal is to empower young women of color.

But the seeds for the movement were planted earlier than that -- in 1996, when Burke was a youth camp director.

After an all-girl bonding session, a young girl asked to speak to Burke privately.

This is how she describes the encounter on the Just Be site:

"For the next several minutes this child ... struggled to tell me about her 'stepdaddy' or rather her mother's boyfriend who was doing all sorts of monstrous things to her developing body. ... I was horrified by her words, the emotions welling inside of me ran the gamut, and I listened until I literally could not take it anymore ... which turned out to be less than five minutes.
Then, right in the middle of her sharing her pain with me, I cut her off and immediately directed her to another female counselor who could 'help her better.' "

Burke said she never forgot the look on the girl's face.

"The shock of being rejected, the pain of opening a wound only to have it abruptly forced closed again -- it was all on her face," she wrote.


"I couldn't help her release her shame, or impress upon her that nothing that happened to her was her fault.
I could not find the strength to say out loud the words that were ringing in my head over and over again as she tried to tell me what she had endured. ...

"I watched her walk away from me as she tried to recapture her secrets and tuck them back into their hiding place. I watched her put her mask back on and go back into the world like she was all alone and I couldn't even bring myself to whisper ... me too."



Later
That was the genesis of the movement -- to help young women of color who had survived sexual abuse, assault and exploitation.

"On one side, it's a bold declarative statement that 'I'm not ashamed' and 'I'm not alone.' On the other side, it's a statement from survivor to survivor that says 'I see you, I hear you, I understand you and I'm here for you or I get it,'" she told CNN.

The movement has taken a life of its own, Burke said.

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Another point from the article: guillaumeb Sep 2018 #1
Tarana Burke's METoo movement began 10 yrs ago. What a story! Bfd Sep 2018 #2
Welcome to DU, and it is an interesting story. guillaumeb Sep 2018 #3
Thanks. And yes, to be so committed to a just cause your entire life, at the level she is, speaks to Bfd Sep 2018 #4
Brett Kavanaugh's life is also grounded in his faith. trotsky Sep 2018 #5
Classic whataboutism. guillaumeb Sep 2018 #6
What's good for the goose... n/t trotsky Sep 2018 #7
Considering how often you engage in it, guillaumeb Sep 2018 #8
I respond to you as you deserve. trotsky Sep 2018 #9
If you understood the fallacy, guillaumeb Sep 2018 #10
Uh huh. trotsky Sep 2018 #11
Try some research. guillaumeb Sep 2018 #12
I already know more about them than you do. trotsky Sep 2018 #13
Self confidence can be a good thing, guillaumeb Sep 2018 #16
Your inability to express an actual understanding of the topics... trotsky Sep 2018 #23
And your whataboutism, and tu quoque, guillaumeb Sep 2018 #25
Thank you for continuing to confirm you have no idea what you're talking about. trotsky Sep 2018 #28
And now, you add in some ad hominem attack. guillaumeb Sep 2018 #34
DOUBLE BINGO! trotsky Sep 2018 #36
You forgot to ask if his intent was to distract from the topic. marylandblue Sep 2018 #14
LOL n/t trotsky Sep 2018 #15
There was no need. guillaumeb Sep 2018 #17
So you know his intent by mind reading? marylandblue Sep 2018 #18
Indeed. eom guillaumeb Sep 2018 #19
He has faith. nt. Mariana Sep 2018 #21
As was Mohammed Atta's.. Permanut Sep 2018 #20
"You can't do this kind of work without being grounded in a faith that showed possibilities." Act_of_Reparation Sep 2018 #22
And I do not look forward to your next display of misunderstanding. guillaumeb Sep 2018 #24
They cannot help themselves. sprinkleeninow Sep 2018 #26
It certainly seems so. eom guillaumeb Sep 2018 #32
'Someone' says "dejected"? Come. On. 🙄 sprinkleeninow Sep 2018 #39
No, I am not dejected. guillaumeb Sep 2018 #40
I know that. What a choice of words was used. 😏 sprinkleeninow Sep 2018 #41
Well, if this simple exchange has you this dejected... Act_of_Reparation Sep 2018 #27
Theistic fragility. trotsky Sep 2018 #30
I remember when you posted that I had "ruined DU" for you. guillaumeb Sep 2018 #33
I don't remember that. Perhaps you could link to where I said that. trotsky Sep 2018 #35
And now you do not remember. guillaumeb Sep 2018 #37
No, I don't remember everything I've said. Shocking, huh? We can't all have your perfect memory. trotsky Sep 2018 #38
Atheists can't be activists, I guess. trotsky Sep 2018 #29
There are no atheists in foxholes, trotsky. Act_of_Reparation Sep 2018 #31
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