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bfoxmatt

(29 posts)
54. She told me in a dream
Tue Jun 24, 2025, 09:24 AM
Jun 2025

Raised Baptist, too. My mother was very religious and we went to church Sunday morning, Sunday night, Wednesday night, Girls Auxiliary on Monday after school, and when anything else was going on at the church. She died of breast cancer when she was 38 and I had just turned 11. Shortly after she died, I had a vivid dream about her and I asked her if she went to heaven. She said "No" and that's when I decided there was no heaven or hell. I lapsed when I was 18 and for a short while, was "born again." But the thing about no one is going to heaven unless they are BAPTIST and BAPTISED -- so, the rest of the world's religious people are all damned. I don't think so! Shortly after she died, I talked my dad into letting me stay home on Sunday night to watch My Favorite Martian! From then on, I only had to put up with Sunday mornings until I went away to college. No church and no religion works for me!

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1984. I was sitting with my family in synagogue on Yom Kippur, no_hypocrisy Jun 2025 #1
I was raised Southern Baptist, which is enough in itself. Haggard Celine Jun 2025 #2
I was raised Southern Baptist, too! ShazzieB Jun 2025 #75
I was born without a religion gene. Girard442 Jun 2025 #3
Or perhaps within your genes, there is an inate immunity to religion? 70sEraVet Jun 2025 #11
Raised Jewish moonshinegnomie Jun 2025 #4
The absolute hypocrisy. OldBaldy1701E Jun 2025 #5
I suspect he wanted the tithes. Joinfortmill Jun 2025 #15
He just thought that gawd made him lord over men. OldBaldy1701E Jun 2025 #53
In High School Fiber Lady Jun 2025 #6
Lunch time at Catholic school dlilafae Jun 2025 #7
I too have struggled with religion since I was a teenager. Lonestarblue Jun 2025 #8
I was nine and my catechism teacher told me that dogs don't go to heaven. Javaman Jun 2025 #9
I was about to make my Confirmation mgardener Jun 2025 #41
Eight years of Catholic school. The second grade teacher LuckyLib Jun 2025 #80
Will Rogers said.. Permanut Jun 2025 #77
You could say my parents believed in freedom of thought EverHopeful Jun 2025 #10
By their preachers shall you know them RVN VET71 Jun 25 #82
Plain and simple indigoth Jun 2025 #12
Locus of Control. multigraincracker Jun 2025 #13
Catholic girl. I was divorced in my 20s. Joinfortmill Jun 2025 #14
The Rev. James Cheek was the beginning for me. He was my Western Civ. instructor at Union Junior College. 3Hotdogs Jun 2025 #16
Once I was old enough to study human biology, any belief in a virgin birth disappeared. Lonestarblue Jun 2025 #18
Alcoholism OC375 Jun 2025 #17
Going to seminary :-) markie Jun 2025 #19
I grew up in a convent SLClarke Jun 2025 #20
Was raised Catholic Woodwizard Jun 2025 #21
Do unto others as you would have it done unto you. BattleRow Jun 2025 #22
Many of us have a very strong faith. beemerphill Jun 2025 #23
Hoping to impress a girl in college, I went to her fundamentalist church... lastlib Jun 2025 #24
I tried for many years to be a Christian. Trueblue Texan Jun 2025 #25
"...I could see no convincing evidence." rubbersole Jun 2025 #37
I respect all belief systems. Trueblue Texan Jun 2025 #43
When it gets used as a political WEAPON. Which seems to be always. usaf-vet Jun 2025 #26
Raised Catholic purple_haze Jun 2025 #27
Reason orangecrush Jun 2025 #28
Nuns and priests were mean, physical and mental. Picked on "slow" kids. twodogsbarking Jun 2025 #29
Eight years of Catholic school. 2MuchNoise Jun 2025 #66
Rest easy my friend, they are all dead by now. We survived, but there are scars. twodogsbarking Jun 2025 #69
Recovering Catholic: Chasstev365 Jun 2025 #30
I didn't know about the passports!!! cpamomfromtexas Jun 2025 #45
No able to post links Chasstev365 Jun 2025 #49
The hypocrisy of organized religion Bluestocking Jun 2025 #31
Never really belived. Went to Catholic school for 12 years, did all the stuff with respect but no real faith. Srkdqltr Jun 2025 #32
Born and raised a Roman Catholic... BobsYourUncle Jun 2025 #33
I formally left the Catholic church almost 15 years ago. mgardener Jun 2025 #34
I grew up. Became an adult... Layzeebeaver Jun 2025 #35
I never believed a word of it myself. mwb970 Jun 2025 #36
Now there is a strategy! Trueblue Texan Jun 2025 #55
I went to Catholic school. As I grew up I'm thinking if God is all love why is there so much hate. TommieMommy Jun 2025 #38
As soon as I went away to college I stopped attending Mass Ritabert Jun 2025 #39
I haven't: I practice Christ's teachings on my own LSparkle Jun 2025 #40
"I've cut out the middle man and am a DIY Christian." Love it! 2MuchNoise Jun 2025 #72
I was a teenager going to confirmation classes Qanisqineq Jun 2025 #42
The people I was sitting next to in church were not good people outside of church. NoMoreRepugs Jun 2025 #44
Raised Catholic LoCo Cat Lady Jun 2025 #46
i was lucky I think. barbtries Jun 2025 #47
Old School Methodist here SARose Jun 2025 #48
I had those experiences at Methodist Summer Camp yellowdogintexas Jun 25 #81
Awesome! SARose Jun 25 #83
Not mocking religion. However, Chasstev365 Jun 2025 #50
That is FABULOUS!!! Trueblue Texan Jun 2025 #59
Good Question Aaeia Jun 2025 #51
I read all the responses Aaeia Jun 2025 #57
First week of school Conjuay Jun 2025 #52
She told me in a dream bfoxmatt Jun 2025 #54
Being excommunicated at 18 was but one step in a process that had niyad Jun 2025 #56
How does one reconcile a 'sky god-trnity' with vast endlessness of the universe? brush Jun 2025 #58
Too many traumas to remember from mountain grammy Jun 2025 #60
It happened in my single digits. Jirel Jun 2025 #61
Nasty malicious gossiping church "ladies" and their equally nasty daughters. Clouds Passing Jun 2025 #62
I once read that most people leave their church because they feel misunderstood and rejected. Tbear Jun 2025 #63
I was raised to be a believer, but it never really took. Americanme Jun 2025 #64
Nothing Delarage Jun 2025 #65
Eight years in Catholic school. Enough said. 2MuchNoise Jun 2025 #67
I gave up being my rural church secretary at age 14 and have only returned for weddings and funerals. It just got sinkingfeeling Jun 2025 #68
Lifelong atheist angrychair Jun 2025 #70
It began when I was 8 years old sitting in church, cksmithy Jun 2025 #71
Reason, snot Jun 2025 #73
about 12 yrs old: this shit don't make sense. ret5hd Jun 2025 #74
Common sense. Polly Hennessey Jun 2025 #76
I was eight CloudWatcher Jun 2025 #78
For me, I am 71 JPK Jun 2025 #79
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