...having a bad night

[Uben]

6. Wish I could just give you a hug.....

.....I know the feeling! In the first three months of this year I lost my mom, a grandchild, and a father-in-law. HAd to put my step-dad into assisted living facility and I have been allocating as much time as possible to picking him up and getting him out to do his business, taking care of his home (which he still isn't ready to sell), paying his bills and taking him to appointments. Sometimes it feels as if everything is working against you. On top of all that, I have managed to start a relationship with a wonderful lady, and we just moved her into my home. Life isn't always easy...it has it's bumps. Couple that with losing 40% of my retirement income (long story, nothing I had control of) and you have a scenario that could drive a person crazy. Still, I feel blessed to have had my mom for 80 years, to have had a beautiful grandchild for only three days, and to have the opportunity to be able to take care of my step-dad when he needs me the most. Perspective! I remain positive because the alternative won't solve anything.

I have my days, too, my dear Orleans, I guess we all do. Grieving is truly a journey. Tomorrow is a different day, and hopefully a better one for you and everyone here.

Uben