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hlthe2b

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1. We put too much pressure/emphasis on being part of large gatherings for T'Day and CHristmas

Reply to steve2470 (Original post)

Thu Nov 27, 2014, 08:44 AM

Nov 2014

IMO. I don't think it is anti-social to enjoy a holiday at home alone on occasion.

Some years I've just wanted to use the day to reflect and relax, sans all the commotion. This is one and I will happily greet those with whom I come into contact (dog park or on my 5 mile walk this morning), but also be glad to skip the diet-destroying mega-feast and the stress of travel. I'll call family and friends today or tomorrow.

The only thing that bugs me is those who "feel sorry for me" and to whom I feel I have to imply I'm spending the day with others.

Happy Thanksgiving to all--whether with big crowds of friends/family or enjoying on your own!

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Happy Thanksgiving [View all] steve2470 Nov 2014 OP

We put too much pressure/emphasis on being part of large gatherings for T'Day and CHristmas hlthe2b Nov 2014 #1

Enjoy yourself and do whatever pleases you. antiquie Nov 2014 #2

Before I retired catchnrelease Nov 2014 #4

Thank you, and the same to you and your family! The turkey is in the oven here, Nay Nov 2014 #3